Not doing this anymore.  

solwhiskey 42M
35 posts
1/30/2006 2:55 pm

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Not doing this anymore.

Well, it's been an interesting month. This Thursday, my prestigious Silver Membership will expire, and I won't be renewing it.

I went Silver to be able to view profiles and contact members, and for the last month I've done a lot of that, with mixed results. I've met and/or chatted with some great people, some I hope to meet and/or chat with again.

One reason I'm not renewing is that there just aren't enough female members in my area to make this worthwhile. On both of the occasions I met women through this site, I had to drive about two hours to see them (and then two hours back home). I can't make a habit out of this. I think if I'm looking to connect with someone in my area, I should probably just turn off the computer and leave the damn house once in a while.

So I haven't written to anyone new in a while, and I won't be contacting anyone I haven't already corresponded with. I also probably won't be updating this blog too much anymore. I'll leave it up here though. Maybe somebody will stumble upon it in a year or two and be entertained.

I'd like to thank AdultFriendFinder for being such suckers, and their Point System, thanks to which they never saw dime one from me. Thanks also to everyone who read this blog, and to those of you I've met, either online or in person, keep in touch.

angelgrrl 49F

1/30/2006 6:41 pm

Awww, solwhiskey, I will miss you. I do hope you stay around the blogs; I like reading what you have to say. And *hint* if you get 10 profile views every 3 days, you still can see profiles and occasionally initiate e-mails as well But yes, getting out is probably the best way for you to meet people. If only you were a little closer . . .

solwhiskey 42M
19 posts
1/30/2006 9:57 pm

Thank you angelgrrl. Although there's no possible way I could get 10 profile views every three days, LOL. I think I've had fifty in the last month. Maybe if I pretended to be bisexual... but no, that would be dishonest. If I lived closer... I guess we'd be in trouble, eh?

angelgrrl 49F

1/31/2006 7:23 pm

I guess for men it is very different. And we sure would

rm_1SweetBitch 56F
8575 posts
2/3/2006 9:15 am

You don't have to leave the site sweetie...keep blogging for the pure entertainment of it. You never know who you might meet that is close to you.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

playmate4u0283 61M
1 post
2/17/2006 10:39 am

I enjoyed your blog and your right on about this site, at least for this area. I'm married so I'm sure it's different for me(lots harder), but in 5 years, I've only met one woman on this site and have spent many bucks as a gold memeber over those years.

I did hook up with a woman (not on this site) who was also married and we just really got along well and after a year, we decided to swing together. Yes, married couples who aren't married to each other also swing and it great fun. Some married swingers don't approve and won't go along with it, but many will. There are two REAL sites that are great if you ever have a friend to join you. (Attractive single guys that are well endowed may do well too, if you like to join other couples) My favorite site was Swingvillage and the other site was swappernet. Don't know if this interest you, but they are very real people, very nice people and you can have some unbelievable times.

My friend and I have since gone our own ways after 3 years and I'm back looking for that secrete friend again.

Good luck,


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