Celebration Time  

smoothnjuicy4u 51F
426 posts
4/30/2006 9:30 am

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5/4/2006 9:47 am

Celebration Time

Well for anyone who may have been reading my blog knows I just came thru one of the hardest decisions I have ever had to make.

Some people I don't think understand why it was so hard but for me to be married to someone who may never be able to connect, to be thoughtful without it being some trained reaction. I am all about sharing, its how I connect and like most women to be able to really "give it and get it good" so to speak I have to feel connected. So now I must find other ways to feel connected to my husband, lover, I am clueless on what or how but if there's a will there's away.

My husband and son were away last night at a Boy Scout camping trip and guess what, I missed them terribly. Which surprised the heck out of me. If I can't make it one night without him how could I ever divorce him.

I feel at peace with my decision and it's time to celebrate it. And what better way then some nasty kinky sex. Why do I always choice sex to celebrate things in my life?? I wonder what this says about me LOL. Maybe I'll share the details with you all. If your lucky

Have a good Sunday
Peace and Hugs

spacecadet561 61M

4/30/2006 10:18 am

If, as in your previous blog, you're not "connecting" with your husband, with whom do you plan to have this kinky sex celebration? Sounds like a fun time. Enjoy, safely.


rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
4/30/2006 10:35 am

Because it feels good I am glad you found peace!

Purry {=}


smoothnjuicy4u 51F

4/30/2006 11:04 am

It's my hubby and I am gonna connect to him somehow like I said in my last post. And right now I am physically horny to so that makes it alittle easier. And it will be a blast.
Lates Smooth

1osiris3 51M

4/30/2006 12:19 pm

Good Luck Smooth

nedthebundler 58M/60F

4/30/2006 8:51 pm

Congratulations! Your courage in making this kind of decision is all to rare in this day and age of instant everything. You are willing to stand up for what you have vs what you don't have. I bow to you...

Madness takes its toll. Exact change please!

smoothnjuicy4u 51F

5/1/2006 6:10 am

Thanks Purry I always enjoy your blog

Dont bow to me Ned, but you did figure out why I decided to stay, smart man LOL

Peace aand Hugs

mycin62 56F

5/1/2006 6:43 am

Good luck, I'm happy that you've made your decision and are at peace with it Now enjoy

RaytownRick 62M

5/2/2006 7:35 am

I'm pleased that you've made the right decision. Having made the decision is a big part of the battle. Now living with it is the remaining fight--so I want to encourage you.
I read a book once called "The Five Languages of Love" or something very similiar. It talks about how we often communicate differently from one another--and how if we speak the wrong language to our partner, it doesn't mean we aren't loved (or loving) just that the other doesn't get it.
Your husband--who goes Scouting with your son--may show love differently than you do. Find the book, read it, and have him read it. Together, you may find that you each need to learn a new language to communicate your love properly.
Good luck. You've chosen a great path--stick with it.

smoothnjuicy4u 51F

5/2/2006 10:53 am

Hi Ray thanks for the encouragement and suggestions.

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