Is there actually a hot...  

slowjeepguy 52M
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3/29/2006 1:19 pm

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12/18/2006 8:47 pm

Is there actually a hot...


woman in Atlanta that is part of AdultFriendFinder and not just an email gathering tool?

Actually, I know the answer to that question. I have met a couple of very attractive, smart and fun women from AdultFriendFinder, but it seems lately that there aren't too many real ones. Occassionally, I get a "not interested" when I send an email, but usually, I just get a scam reply.

You ladies have stuff to deal with in the AdultFriendFinder world. Without a question, there are a lot of asshats, freaks, and not-really-sane guys that are looking to meet you. Then if you think you found one that isn't nuts, meeting him is a daunting prospect... Is he really sane, or just good at faking it? Will he actually be whom he has represented himself as? We understand, and to a lesser extent have those same issues.

But, ladies, can you cut us a little slack? We don't know who may be real and who may be Memorex. I'm thinking the numbers run in the under 10% realm for real women with actual pictures posted. I think the number drops from there as the attractiveness of the picture goes up. Even at that, the guys outnumber the women about 5:1 here.

The whole point of the rant is that us guys are trying to wade through scores of profiles to find the actual women. While we are doing that, many of the actual women get really bent out of shape if we don't write a long enough introductory email, or if our introductory email starts to sound canned, or (God forbid) "cut and paste." Can we get a signal?

I first tried just responding to women with friends in their network. Then I went for just the ones with testemonials. Now, I am blogging and looking for local women that also blog... or at least write comments.

Maybe I've already actually talked to all of the real and attractive women in AdultFriendFinder near Atlanta, but I don't think so.

Darkpassion 58F

3/29/2006 4:48 pm

Because a pic is attractive it doesn't necessarily make it a fake. Maybe i've been lucky on here to meet nice REAL people or maybe my vetting process is just a bit more though.
I too have resorted to the blogs because I find the folks here interesting and up for friendship as well as sex. Spend more time on the ones that have created good profiles and blogs and less on the nice pics but no substance profiles. Perfect your profile then all you need to do is wink and we'll check you out. Don't worry we wont let a good one pass...there are so few on here.


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