Finding a real slut  

sirsenormister 47M
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3/19/2006 3:07 pm
Finding a real slut


A story that's likely been repeated countless times ... but maybe never been told ...

So you've signed up for AdultFriendFinder after seeing all the ads for "get laid tonight"? You were thinking to yourself .. wow ... I need to get laid ... this looks great!

Lo and behold ... you see the promised land ... naked cootie that looks ripe and ready for you. You settle down ... beer in hand ... and create your first profile ...

Looks simple and easy. The interface and site design are lush and more feature rich than the usual dating sites (that you might have tried before).

But as you send off emails and slowly explore it's inner workings ... you find yourself at a loss. Could it be? That manly competition exists in this paradise of easy sex?

Yes poor soul ... it does ... the cocks are all around you ... and the women have rulers ...

So what can a less than studly man do to gain any edge? Well first off ... don't look for easy sex. There's a high probability that you won't find it here or anywhere. Better luck with a lottery ticket.

To get out of the downward spiral that comes with sexual frustration ... whether you are a guy or a girl ... then save up your pennies as best you can and travel as far away as you can. If you are a guy ... third world ... if you are a lady ... Europe ... If you can't leave the country .. then "improvise" ...

Traveling will do wonders for multiple reasons ... first of all ... that itch you have is easier to scratch in some countries where the women (or men) are a bit more "friendly" to guys (or gals) of less than perfection. Prostitution is a difficult word to swallow. Exploitation is a short step away ... but a kind and honest person who just needs a bit of a boost ... can find delicious fruits if they look. It might not even involve real and actual sex.

I'm a guy... so I'll give a guy example ...
"Girlie Bars" in Asia are way different than here in the states. They are often "hostess bars" ... the girls sit with you, talk to you, and poor you drinks. They don't treat you like a girlfriend would, but they treat you respectfully and kindly. They smile and flirt and any lack of ego you might have had ... slowly starts to go away while you listen to bad karaoke or some house-band. You start to remember why you liked being a man. And if you really do need the sex ... some (ok most) of those bars will be happy to provide that too ... for a fee that is so low that it get's easy to rationalize. For the cost of dinner and a movie ... this cute girl with the sexy smile will go home with you for the night. It can be tough to say no to that.

So don't be afraid to look at our cultural rules with some degree of creativity. Appreciate and take advantage of the cultural differences. Let go of any desperation that will hinder your true happiness back home. By being respectful and appreciative ... smiling and say thanks ... even to a whore ... will help you be the person you need to be when the real mate you are after comes along.

Whatever you do, just be a tourist ... not a "sex tourist" ... Because the other benefit to travelling is that you learn and grow. Your perspective and attitude towards the world (and towards women will broaden). You'll learn to like whole categories of life that you might not have even liked before. Nothing helps your prospects like broadening the field and having an honest appreciation for all shapes, colors, and sizes.

You'll be able to tell stories about life on the road in exotic places. (But never tell a new girlfriend about "Candy" the bar-girl you met and couldn't say no to ... unless you met her on AdultFriendFinder)

I've done my fair share of travelling in the third world and my girlfriends absolutely love to go to Europe ... during a "dry spell" ...

Most any guy desires more sex in his life ... nice but this world offers so much more than that which is exotic and even sometimes erotic.

Sharing a sweet tasting fruit that you've never even seen of or heard with a woman who giggles and smiles as you try to speak her language ... Seeing the bashful but sexy look in her eyes as the juice drips down her t-shirt and onto her breasts ...

The hardest part to getting away isn't the leaving part ... it's the coming back part ...

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