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single_mother06 35F
7 posts
8/16/2006 10:07 am
hey there

I am wondering if the guys in this world know that being a single mom is harder then they think and that as a single mom how hard it is for us to even think about getting into the dating world.

Alannc4900 61M

8/16/2006 11:10 am

What's the big deal? ... take care of the kids and the house and your job ... then get dolled up to go on a date ... have sex for hours ... sleep an hour or so .. then start over again ...

Women are such complainers ... *W*


arnobb 41M
1 post
8/16/2006 12:12 pm

I was brought up by one..it sometimes isnt fair, but then as a kid u really dont knw! and some guys do know. Its just that you often dont see the sigle dad in the same picture do you??

Hydragenias 57F

8/16/2006 1:21 pm

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MyPussysOnFire 62F

9/28/2006 10:13 am

I can imagine how hard it is for you. My husband was a single father (single "Custodial" father) for a long time before we got together. He was (still is) a wonderful father, and a dad too; but between an Army career with frequent deployments, and balancing teachers meeetings, athletic practice, and music lessons with doctors appointments, cooking, laundry, and sundry other housework he was working his way to an early grave. He confided in me that being deployed to a war zone from time to time was the only way he could get any rest. Yet, all of the while there he had to worry about child care and the like instead of the task at hand. He NEVER dated. Ours, began as an "On Line" relationship (NO - not on and adult lifestyle site). We dated via the inter-net for nearly a year and a half before we finally met. Things are happy now though. I, fortunately, didn't have to go through the normal "step mother" rejection, because his kids were so hungry for the love of a TWO parent family they took me right in. Though their real mother is a "part" of their lives (and I use the word "part" very loosely here), I am the one they call "MOM". I have no advice to give you, as I personally haven't walked the proverbial "mile in your' shoes"; but I can offer you this - my best wishes that you find who and what you are looking for, if not here on AdultFriendFinder, someplace else. We have NEVER had a bad eXXXperience with anyone we've met in person here on AdultFriendFinder, and it surely has filled some dead space now and again, for me, and provided some great "recreational opportunities" at other times for us together.
By the way - While I'm at it let me say - you are truly a lovely young woman, and I hope that you do not dismiss me too quickly just because of my age. There are VERY few things I enjoy as much as I LOVE to help young people live out a few of their sexual fantasies. Should you ever plan to visit Northern California I hope you will let me know that you are coming.

rm_JeffHarder69 49G
7 posts
10/14/2006 2:58 pm

Hi, beautiful! Sure, I can understand where you're coming from. But please, keep in mind that life itself is difficult for most people. It's a challenge, and finding a balance between your work life, home life and commitments, and yourself is the key.

I don't know about everyone else, but it seems like the older I get, the less free time I have. I'm single with no kids, but my life is very demanding and it seems like I have little free time. But keep on trucking, and keep on looking for balances. Make little concessions here and there to get what you want, keeping in mind that life's commitments do sometimes get in the way. Be ready to seize opportunities to enjoy life, and cherish them fully

I was sorry to see you're over 200 miles from me (I'm in Puyallup). But if you can ever get away for a weekend, maybe having your kids stay with a relative, I can give you an experience you'll always remember and find incredibly fulfilling.

I'm the host and organizer of a swinger's party group, and at our parties couples and single women have the opportunity to fulfill all of their sexual fantasies and desires, in an incredibly open and erotic atmosphere. If you're interested, please view my profile and get in touch.

I can't email you because of your cupid settings (my account is a group), but if you reset them I'll gladly get in touch, if you like

Just remember, despite life's demands you're a very beautiful and sexy woman, and you have a lot of life ahead of you. Just be sure to make the time, when you can, to fully experience and enjoy it

Leave a reply here if interested, and be sure to allow email from groups - I will get in touch

Jeff Harder

rm_poopshooter4 60M

11/3/2006 12:59 pm

Think thats tough try being a single dad with a 6mo old and a 2 year old...lol...still recovering and they are 19 and 21 now. So yes I have empathy for you. The bright side is it can be a very positive life experience and even though it was tough I would not have traded places with anyone...well maybe Hugh Hefner...lol.

looking2pla73 44M

1/27/2008 9:36 am

I understand completely. I have been a single Dad since last Jan. It's soooooo worth the work. It was hard for me to go from single guy to dad in one day, but I would not have it any other way. Now the hard part is finding decent women that understand that they are second in my eyes. I think that it is funny how many I met when I was without the kids that had no problem telling me that I need ed to understand that the kids alway come first no matter what. I totally agree with this, just find it funny how many second dates have now ended with Me not seeming to have enough time for them because I have to spend all my time focusing on my kids. In fact I literally started laughing at the last one. Of course that didn't help things much.

So keep up the the good work Baby. You are not alone, and it will always be worth it.

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