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sinfulinnocent 32F
109 posts
3/31/2005 8:14 pm

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10/28/2006 5:40 pm

Well now

I figured this was the best place to post about my sexual behaviors class ...I mean hello its a sex site and I certainly can get some awesome feedback on things...so here is this weeks discussion in my class......

Although penile-vaginal intercourse is the "main event" of sexual sharing for
many heterosexual couples, that is certainly not the case for everyone. For many
individuals, while intercourse may be pleasurable for them, it is not as
pleasurable as other activities or it may be difficult to achieve orgasm that way.
In addition, individuals with a homosexual orientation, individuals who are
physically disabled in some way, or individuals with chronic illnesses or other
medical conditions may be unable or unwilling to have intercourse. If you have
experienced intercourse, what are your feelings about it? Are you easily aroused
and/or orgasmic with intercourse? Is it ever awkward/uncomfortable/painful for
you? If so, why? Which coital positions do you prefer? Why? Have you been able
to communicate your preferences to your partner? If not, what gets in the way?

So I can not truly answer the question...I have lots of oral experience but little intercourse. Two times both forced does not quite work ya know. So yes it was painful with like no foreplay at all and basically missionary position(I guess we were in car) lol! So I wanna hear your stories .... DOes that make me a perv? LOL well I am a cute perv at least

nightstogether 58M

4/1/2005 4:39 am

I think you must be on a damn good course there; it covers plenty that is real in our world.

In a car? The missionary position is not the best, doggie style is where it's at, and only after the foreplay when you're so hot you want to burst and you *know* he or she is going to be able to do it for you.

private-intellectual (.de)


4/2/2005 8:44 pm

luv 2 share w/u what imagination brings out - i find dif things vs. d=>p..the q: what can u do 2 make a tru luvr reach new levels..and repeat, don't cheat, work hard w/out trying...a: sucking, stroking, g-spot reaching, racing heart pump'n xxx, tan rich'd skin salty sweat as sweet as honey drip'n as kisses softly as our bodies melt n2 ea other,

tallsexcandthick 41M

5/26/2005 8:43 pm


rm_satiroysanto 40M

6/5/2005 5:55 pm

mostly i'm agree with nightstogether about the position thing, but anyone can work if u feel it does i think a good thing would be to get solwly lust and DON'T THINK AT ALL, this is very important thought.
well my first time was pretty diferent than yours i was 23? wof already and at home with plenty of time kissing we both knew what was going to happend, and she was experienced!, so i think i made the full kamasutra that day.if u are a pervert i'm insane, a rush of kisses.

nightprowlers316 50M/43F
21 posts
6/19/2005 7:55 pm

look what about being stood upside down and eat like a popcicle,that would be great ,and any and every other way u ,we could come up with,hello

rino2876 41M

6/28/2005 10:07 am

Intercourse is very different for each person. There are thousands of different responses, everything imaginable. The ones that get the most out of intercourse, I believe, are the ones who communicate between each other. If both are talking about what they like and don't like, then it will make you feel closer and open up your mind to experience more intense sensation. And not just during orgasm. You can actually achieve the orgasms that feel like they last for hours! They are incredible! Once you have experienced one, it changes the whole way you look at sex. It can also make you crave it more often or make you more selective in who you choose to have sex with...because you only want the great kind of sex. It has changed what I want out of sex. I want to experience it all. From the first electric charge you get from the first touch of skin, all the way through the moment you are both sweaty, out of breath,face to face, and staring in each others eyes, glazed over with mutual pleasure from a multi-orgasmic experience. And no one part is better than the others.

abdoullah5 41M

7/31/2005 4:13 pm

salut qlle beauté rare à trouver et qll belle taille ta foto me donne l'envie de te lecher et te sucer doucement tes beaux seins et ta belle poitrine c possible? biz

firstcontactnow 41M
51 posts
9/3/2005 10:47 am

The other posters are right - lots of foreplay and sexual exploration and oral sex work best in the car - from licking to sucking to fingering and lots of deep passionate, exciting kisses --- doing everything but actually inserting the penis into the vagina in the car works very well, and once you're really hot and bothered and ready to explode, then intercourse is easier.

firstcontactnow 41M
51 posts
9/3/2005 10:56 am

ps. how did you do in your course... I assume since you posted the post on your sexual behaviors class back in the spring, that it was a spring term course? what topics did it cover? was it a course for university / college credit? if so, what did you have to do for marks - write papers? exams?

I'd be curious to know...

3 posts
9/18/2005 8:43 pm

I have to say that foreplay is the main event in any relationship, intercourse is just the finishing touch, the whipped cream on top so to speak. To start with the kissing and touching and stroking, then to go down on your partner and them on you, to be able to contain yourself, wow what a ride that can be in it self. The real question should be that with right partner can one be content with just foreplay alone? Don't get wrong I like the intercourse, but for me foreplay, most of the time is far more satisfing. As far as favorite postion I guess that would have to be from behind.

3 posts
10/7/2005 8:29 pm

Kati you sound like you would be a trip to be with, sexually or not. To give you some feed back on your questions: Yes ive had some sex with multiple partners. Thats where it gets complicated some partners the sex was better than the fore play and then ive had A(as in just one) where the fore play outlasted the sex by hours. Now to ask you a question since your in some kind of sex class(which is interesting) Is it the sex drive of the two people or some kind of want to have multiple orgasims rather one long session.

3 posts
10/7/2005 8:36 pm

Or actually lol im drunk now and thinking back. Was it just the fact the relationship was a long one and sex was good but it got old and boring even tried different positions and all that(from behind is my preference) but still it was more fun(maybe more personal) to to "play"

3 posts
10/11/2005 4:06 pm

i would like to see more.

3 posts
10/11/2005 4:08 pm

I will do whatever you wont.I am at your comand

Swampdawg1961 56M

5/28/2006 10:16 am

Foreplay is very essential to having sex, wether as a precursor to intercourse or the main event. There are so many things to experience in foreplay from oral stimulation to mutual masturbation. Plenty of touching and kissing is also the key. And it doesn't neccessarily have to lead to intercourse. I have gotten a woman off just by licking, sucking and kissing her breasts, while she got me off by letting me fuck her breasts.
As far as favorite position, while I like "doggie style", I'd say my favorite is woman on top. It allows the woman to control the rate and depth of her orgasm.
It's never been painful to have intercourse, but i have experience awkwardness. Mainly the problem was on my part, in the fact, that if the partner is not enjoying the sex as I am, it doesn't help me enjoy it. Sex isn't one-sided it is a mutual thing and both parties should find it pleasurable. In saying that however, don't get me wrong, it's not that I wasnt good. i've been told by my "partner" that I have been very exciting and pleasurable. My problem stemmed from the fact that my wife, due to medical problems, lost interest in sex intirely and would only go through with it, just to "do the business".
that in turn made it awkward and uncomfortable for me, and eventually drove me to my partner. she and I have been seeing each other for a year and no complaints

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