Why do single guys respond to couples advertising  

shycyn69 57F
15 posts
6/9/2005 12:01 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why do single guys respond to couples advertising

I state I am interested in couples or groups but single guys get all bent outta shape when I turn them down - Can't they read? Are they to vain in thinking I might change my mind because they are better than the last guy I turned down? Can anyone help me understand why that is happening alot to me?


6/9/2005 1:34 pm

By looking at your photo I see why guy's keep trying. A lot one guy's think that there is always that one chance to get some action. Hope that gives you some insight.

sandiegocpl4fun 56M/53F

7/4/2005 2:07 pm

We have just responded by saying. NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. Usually never hear back.

Fitnessguy25 41M
7 posts
7/24/2005 2:00 am

There are several reasons. In CA, there are ~870,000 men seeking women and ~67,000 women seeking men, that is a 13 to 1 ratio. When you eliminate non-active profiles and fake profiles (men posing as women, pros, etc. ) then it probably drops down to >15 to 1. This distorts the ratio of replies. If the same percentage of single guys and other groups are bad apples, then you will still be overwhelemd by contacts from single guys. However, it is not the same percentage. The ratio results in many unsatisfied single guys who are looking and can't find anyone. They'll contact a woman whether she says she is looking for single guys or not. Guys are visual creatures, and a large portion of men only look at pictures before sending a first email.

crazyinsandiego2 48M

10/2/2005 4:41 pm

You know there may be chance that you may be able to get your couple by taking on single inquiries....

rm_jstbuznsex 51M

10/5/2005 2:51 pm

Hey, I only replied because it says seeking Men, women, couples..etc. There is certainly no disrespect meant. I also read the profile, which mentions men singularly and couples. Also, in the testimonials, there is a single guy. Frankly, the onus is upon the profile writer, whomever that may be, to make it pointedly clear what it is he/she is looking for. That will eliminate any further confusion.

Personally, I always take the time to read the full profile before responding. With a woman this hot, there seemed to be enough open ended verbage to suggest that she may be interested in single guys too.

In conclusion, sorry Cyn. Didn't realize exactly what it was you were after. Please delete the offer for correspondence, and good luck in Normal Heights!!

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