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sexymom20069 49F
631 posts
5/21/2006 12:47 pm

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5/21/2006 5:53 pm

Well -----------------

Today I am cleaning out my Closet - Sort of Speaking
I am ending it with a few guys whom I have yet to meet for the first time or guys whom say they want me but it's like months before I ever see them again.
One guy , I met from another site lives 30 mins away - he & I have been talking on and off for almost 16 months - he is married to his Company.
Everytime he says he is cumming to see me , something ALWAYS cums up. Friday night was the last straw. I waited til 2 am for him and he never called to say why he didnt show.
Another guy is married has been 4 months since we was last together and finally heard from him - he has been busy with home and work - but he could of emailed or im'ed me but he didnt. He denied me to add him to my friends list last night.
there is others but oh well , Good Luck to them in there search.
So , if you are reading this and wondering why I am the way I am - its cuz I get hurt and lied too most of the time and I am soooooooooo tired if.
And if you email me saying your wanting to get to know me please remember this : If I answer back and say I would like to also but dont hear back from you within a week. I will email one last time and say good luck.
TAKE CARE - All my Best and Good Luck to All

mikewv1967 51M

5/21/2006 1:37 pm

I am sorry to hear that and while I realize you won't likely take any solice in the fact that women do that VERY thing...regularly; it does happen the other way around.

I know that doesn't help. I would recommend stating that very clearly in your replys to men...

Good luck in th future and your doing the right thing...cut it off NOW before you get hurt further.

rm_Poetical25 38M
95 posts
5/21/2006 1:54 pm

I know exactly where you are comming from! But i Also Know there has to be a Clear Understanding on what Both parties in a Relationship expect out the relationship too! Leaving things stranded to speculation leads to confusion then frustration. You are a beautiful woman Linda . Take Charge of the situation rather than waiting on Them to show you the next move.
I wish you all the Best

Remember Open Comuincation is Very Important, If the Men you are intrested in are not willing to meet you half way then thats tough. If they Really Don't meet what you are looking for but are seriously trying then thats better.. If they only show intrest when they need soemthing then they are being selfish and thats not fare for you


spacecadet561 61M

5/21/2006 4:30 pm

The ones who don't follow through don't deserve more than three strikes...like baseball. Good luck finding some who do show up when they say they will, and who proceed to treat you like a lady until you decide it's time to get a little trampy.


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