when do you say enough is enough?  

sexymamma662003 32F
3954 posts
9/3/2006 3:32 pm

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when do you say enough is enough?


do you ever read a post on someones blog that you just wish you could reach thru the screen and slap them silly or choke them to death. i have on a few occasions.

i hate when people are so hypocritical and do nothing but whine.
nothing pisses me off more when someone bitches about the "list". who really gives a shit about it anyways?
I don't. i honestly don't think it is a popularity contest either.the people on that list are there because alot of people like them. it don't mean that there's is the only good blogs either. there are tonz of great blogs out there i jut think they haven't been recognized yet.

i don't comment on most of those the people on the "list" because i feel that my comment isn't going to be herd so why comment. there are actually 2 (maybe more, haven't looked at the list in a while) that i do read and comment because they take the time to comment to every one who has commented to them.

i read alot of people crying about how the people on the list are just there because of popularity and that they bitch and moan which gets them more comments and higher on the "list"
the people crying about the list are doing what they say the others are doing. knowing full well that by saying rude things about other members on this site even ones fromm the "list" it will cause people to come to there blog. weather it be good or bad comments it is still another unique comment none the less.

so when is enough,enough? i say when one becomes hypocritical of ones self.
ive seen on more then one occasion during the whole cliticals thing was going on a particular blogger was being an extremely hypocritical. this blogger is on the "list". oh well. just wanted to get this off my chest its been bugging me.

~sexy~


TXBITCH2006 50F

9/3/2006 3:51 pm

I agree with you. Who cares about a stupid list? This isn't high school, so people should quit acting like it is.


rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
9/3/2006 3:57 pm

i don't comment on most of those the people on the "list" because i feel that my comment isn't going to be herd so why comment. there are actually 2 (maybe more, haven't looked at the list in a while) that i do read and comment because they take the time to comment to every one who has commented to them.

IM tryin

Seriously, I get so behind sometimes and I really do feel bad, sad thing is I wish I could post two or three times a day but I just cant keep up.


cantseetofar1 46M
24 posts
9/3/2006 4:00 pm

Hey,I have just started to blog and I'm seeing a trend almost like what your saying.So far I find,if they wine all the time don't read it and don't take it personal any of this,everyone here is a stranger.Thats why my profile name has a meaning,you can't see what is on the other side of the computer.

Willy


sexymamma662003 32F

9/3/2006 4:04 pm

    Quoting TXBITCH2006:
    I agree with you. Who cares about a stupid list? This isn't high school, so people should quit acting like it is.
AMEN to that

~sexy~


sexymamma662003 32F

9/3/2006 4:07 pm

    Quoting rm_saintlianna:
    i don't comment on most of those the people on the "list" because i feel that my comment isn't going to be herd so why comment. there are actually 2 (maybe more, haven't looked at the list in a while) that i do read and comment because they take the time to comment to every one who has commented to them.

    IM tryin

    Seriously, I get so behind sometimes and I really do feel bad, sad thing is I wish I could post two or three times a day but I just cant keep up.
yours is one i read every day that you post. you have been very good to me about acknowledging my comments i actually dont think there is one of mine you havent. but i dont comment on ever one of your posts either. some are just to mind boggiling for me LOL
even the one i asked you to e-mail me on you commented to it LOL

there are others though that dont answer any of there comments at all. or just respond to those they are "friends" with and ignore everyone else

~sexy~


sexymamma662003 32F

9/3/2006 4:08 pm

    Quoting cantseetofar1:
    Hey,I have just started to blog and I'm seeing a trend almost like what your saying.So far I find,if they wine all the time don't read it and don't take it personal any of this,everyone here is a stranger.Thats why my profile name has a meaning,you can't see what is on the other side of the computer.

    Willy
exactly

~sexy~


elmexicano_2k 47M

9/3/2006 4:21 pm

I'm not on the list. Ask me if I care.

Butch: I'm American, honey. Our names don't mean shit.


sexymamma662003 32F

9/3/2006 4:37 pm

do you care?

~sexy~


rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
9/3/2006 4:56 pm

there are others though that dont answer any of there comments at all. or just respond to those they are "friends" with and ignore everyone else

I know what you mean and I hate that. I just start at the beginning and everyone gets a comment or no one does.


rm_aboutme66 52F
6047 posts
9/3/2006 5:30 pm

There are so many really good blogs out there that I really do not read the listed one much at all anymore. when I come on every day I love to go through all the new posts for the last couple of hours. I have too many now on my own list that have come from random reading.

Donna
Someday is today.


Myhoneysrooster 69M
882 posts
9/3/2006 6:37 pm

The only list I care about is the list I have for personal viewing.
I go to blogs I enjoy reading and could care less if anyone agrees with them or not.
I could not begin to tell you who is on which list at what position.

Wehn you get to the top, the only place you can go is down so what is the point of tryion gto top everyone else?


sexymamma662003 32F

9/3/2006 7:22 pm

    Quoting Myhoneysrooster:
    The only list I care about is the list I have for personal viewing.
    I go to blogs I enjoy reading and could care less if anyone agrees with them or not.
    I could not begin to tell you who is on which list at what position.

    Wehn you get to the top, the only place you can go is down so what is the point of tryion gto top everyone else?
good point. gravity will always bring you down. but here i dont think it will be graduale i think it will be hard when peple fall off the list here

~sexy~


elmexicano_2k 47M

9/3/2006 8:38 pm

Heyell no!

Butch: I'm American, honey. Our names don't mean shit.


angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
9/3/2006 10:15 pm

I try real hard to respond to every comment on my blog. But sometimes, it just doesn't happen. I'm with Saint on the fact that if everyone can't get a respond from me, then no one does. But I read every single comment....and they mean alot to me. The "list" isn't that important, as my blog has brought me alot of friends and some great advice.....and a place to play around....and rant when needed.


sexymamma662003 32F

9/3/2006 11:28 pm

    Quoting magahee77:
    The next person that bitches about that list, or bitches about somebody on the list i'm going to do everything i can to pimp that motherfucker and get them on the list.
ohhhhhhhhh that would be so funny

~sexy~


sexymamma662003 32F

9/3/2006 11:30 pm

    Quoting angelofmercy5:
    I try real hard to respond to every comment on my blog. But sometimes, it just doesn't happen. I'm with Saint on the fact that if everyone can't get a respond from me, then no one does. But I read every single comment....and they mean alot to me. The "list" isn't that important, as my blog has brought me alot of friends and some great advice.....and a place to play around....and rant when needed.
oh hun i know, yours is one i read every day as well.
i understand that you cant answer every comment.
i have noticed that both you and saint do that as well if you cant answer them allyou dont answer any of them, i think thats a great idea

~sexy~


sexymamma662003 32F

9/4/2006 12:11 am

    Quoting rm_aboutme66:
    There are so many really good blogs out there that I really do not read the listed one much at all anymore. when I come on every day I love to go through all the new posts for the last couple of hours. I have too many now on my own list that have come from random reading.
yes there is, i read so many that should be read by more but they arent

~sexy~


MastsTroveSites 48M

9/4/2006 7:19 am

Well I'm new to blog land...been in the chat rooms alot and there is alot of drama there as well...the only thing that i have found that bugs me about blogs so far is...when you write one and two people and up having a confersation with each other on there but dont bother to leave a coment to your post...have a good one.


florallei 100F

9/4/2006 10:06 am

Hello Sexy,

LOL, I visit perhaps a handful only on this so-called list and I comment only on 2 or 3 of them because of what is written not because they are on the list.
Each of us here offer such varied interest and I love how people think and what they bring to blogville! I wish I could read a lot more and comment but no time to do so.
It is mind boggling to me how some can have a readership of thousands, WOW! The pages of comments is unbelievable as well. I can barely keep up replying on 20 to 30 comments...I am just happy one other person reads what I think and feel!
It is easy to loose sight of why we blog. Mine is a combination of life's little wisdom and my growth of becoming the real me.
I enjoy yours and am so glad you visited mine for I may not have visited just because there are so many others. Yours has brought me huge smiles, giggles, and tears. You hit that tender spot in me!
I dislike the complaints and put downs and whining. I pass them by!!!

hugs,
flo


sexymamma662003 32F

9/4/2006 10:16 am

    Quoting florallei:
    Hello Sexy,

    LOL, I visit perhaps a handful only on this so-called list and I comment only on 2 or 3 of them because of what is written not because they are on the list.
    Each of us here offer such varied interest and I love how people think and what they bring to blogville! I wish I could read a lot more and comment but no time to do so.
    It is mind boggling to me how some can have a readership of thousands, WOW! The pages of comments is unbelievable as well. I can barely keep up replying on 20 to 30 comments...I am just happy one other person reads what I think and feel!
    It is easy to loose sight of why we blog. Mine is a combination of life's little wisdom and my growth of becoming the real me.
    I enjoy yours and am so glad you visited mine for I may not have visited just because there are so many others. Yours has brought me huge smiles, giggles, and tears. You hit that tender spot in me!
    I dislike the complaints and put downs and whining. I pass them by!!!

    hugs,
    flo
yes the ton of pages or comments can get to be rediculouse.
i do like your blog as well. im suprised i hadnt started reading it way before. you writing comes from your heart and i love that

~sexy~


sexymamma662003 32F

9/4/2006 4:13 pm

    Quoting rm_LoveSpell11:
    I don't visit too many of the wildly popular ones either, but sometimes I do. And I don't care about The List. Although mine is (or was, actually I don't know anymore) the most popular blog in Boston. A friend told me that, and I admit I was kind of excited. But then it passed

    It is very important to some. Remember that psycho who hated me for a while? One of her upsets was that I was "stealing" her blog readers. WTF?

    I like people to come to my blog because of the community. I feel like I am friends with a lot of them, even though we've never met and I've never seen most of their faces!

    And I sometimes can't get to all the comments either. I try, but I sometimes find that there are just too many, or I get distracted. This makes me think I need to do better with that.
hey love.

it is amazing the friendships we can make with people even though we never seen faces.90% of the time you comment to everyone. it just pisses me off that alot of people dont do it at all.not to even one single person.

~sexy~


rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
9/5/2006 4:07 am

I got so tired of the drama and whining surrounding the list that I stopped blogging for awhile. I just couldn't get motivated to write. Now that I slid off the top, I get a lot less grief. This is a strange place sometimes ...

I've also noticed that some of the people who have recently risen to the top seem to have a competition going, spamming other people's blogs to attract comments. I guess it makes them happy.


sexymamma662003 32F

9/5/2006 9:49 am

    Quoting rm_kelli4u2dew:
    I got so tired of the drama and whining surrounding the list that I stopped blogging for awhile. I just couldn't get motivated to write. Now that I slid off the top, I get a lot less grief. This is a strange place sometimes ...

    I've also noticed that some of the people who have recently risen to the top seem to have a competition going, spamming other people's blogs to attract comments. I guess it makes them happy.
yep seem some are just out for the top now

~sexy~


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