my best friend  

sexydisaster30 43F
5527 posts
3/6/2006 2:30 pm

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my best friend

I am having a really bad day. Leave it up to my best girlfriend to tell me like it is. Here are some things that she said from our most recent instant message conversation.

You have a pattern of allowing yourself to not have it all... and letting men to take what they need from you

and they should not have wants and desires to be in a relationship with anyone but you

you should be THE girl for someone

you should never be number 2 or one of the girls

lastly you allow yourself to be in that position under the guise of wanting sex and somehow turn in around in your mind that you are using them for sex.... when in reality they may be using you for sex and getting a relationship from someone else

so get back up on that bunny and wait for the right guy to come along (or girl)

and hold out with the sex for someone who deserves it

i know you feel sad but you should feel empowered

because you made a decision not to settle

I love this girl and I hate her all at the same time.


caressmewell 55F

3/6/2006 2:38 pm

*Grins* yes but you needed to hear it and you will love her all the more for it later.

digdug41 50M

3/6/2006 7:19 pm

hey your friends right dont take it in a bad way we never want to hear the truth but if this helps you to move along then use it and dont let no guys play you for the pussy either coz we're good for that shit I oughta know cyaroun the blogs hun

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

jadedbabe78 107F

3/6/2006 7:35 pm

She sounds like an awesome friend who just wants the best for you. We hate to hear the truth sometimes....but it empowers us all at the same time .

Hang in there, sweetie!


ohsodelicious 58F
1922 posts
3/6/2006 11:49 pm

disaster...Sometimes we perceive our ‘best friends’ as our worst enemies. Probably, because ‘they’ know ‘us’ so well...and tell ‘us’ truths...that we already know {and have realized} but, have not yet ‘actually’ followed thru with...she is just looking out for your best interests... Life is an...Evolution...ongoing...changing
...learning...seeking...finding...I wish you ‘Luck’ in whatever, your choices may be...

Big Hugs...OhSo{=}


3/7/2006 2:11 am

Believe me this friend is a keeper!

When you say "you hate her" it's because she's straight up enough with you to tell you stuff that you don't want to hear. But it's stuff that you need to hear. And if you didn't have her you might not know anyone else this closely that has the "balls" to let you know these things in such clear and direct manner.

And there's no way she could even say things of this nature to you in the manner that she did if she did not also care about you A LOT!

So treasure that friend!


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