Just A Question.....  

rm_sexybbw926 37F
22 posts
4/4/2005 11:18 am

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Just A Question.....

I find it odd that people on this website list discretion as a "must" but then they have full on booty butt-naked pics of themselves with their smiling faces beaming out at you. Okay, so here's my question,am I wrong for not truly believing that discretion is a must for them if they have their faces plastered all over this very public website.
Discretion is TRULY a must for me and while I love the lifestyle, I don't want my Mama to know that. Am, I being an asshole for not responding to a person with a face pic on this site if they say they value discretion. That's just contradictory to me, I don't take that as a good sign.
Please let me know what you think.


1 post
4/4/2005 3:27 pm

I feel exactly the same way that you do about that and that is something that I have been also wondering about for sometime now well got to go now

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
4/4/2005 5:24 pm

Through visiting blogs I have discovered that this is a big issue with many on this site. I have no experience myself, but I have heard that many of these may be false. Fake people maybe not even of the gender they claim. As with anything these days...use caution on this site.

MisterFreeze79 38M

4/4/2005 7:15 pm

I agree for the most part. While I was contacting a girl in my area she requested a "cock pic", which I am still kinda shy about giving out but, hey, I was horny at the time. So I sent it to her anyway. And now some complete stranger has a picture of my penis.
And probably getting a good chuckle out of it too...

rm_sexybbw926 37F
13 posts
4/5/2005 8:35 pm

Well, I am glad to know that I am not the only person who feels the way I do. But, since I am looking for ladies I would love to get a lady's opinion.

1 post
7/14/2005 4:52 pm

just wanted to say...DAMN sexybbw that's a sexy pic

rm_PeterEatahoe 48M
1 post
7/24/2005 10:49 pm

You can't take these people too seriously, me included. Just use good judgement and read between the lines.


7/28/2005 10:15 am

I agree that it is to say you want to be discreet then post pics everywhere.That being said, I wonder if it is a case of interpretation. I believe that people define discretion as"be cool, don't let anyone know what we are doing" when it comes to sites like this. I for one think that is what is being asked-in other words "Yes I would like to meet someone for fun and games but don't attract attention when you get here and don't brag afterward". I don't consider myself discreet-i have both a face pic(main)and another(wish they didn't all pop up when looking at profiles) but I can be a gentleman about meeting others-not every meeting leads to sex-most don't so there's no reason to do damage to anyone's rep or living conditions by being an obvious jerk

2 posts
7/29/2005 12:41 pm

true true true and lots of licks to you. give me a shout

ntriguesu 48M

8/19/2005 12:12 am

Sexybbw926, You were the inspiration for my first blog. Basically my thougts are that you do have all types here and you have to be careful. But just like any website, one tends to get attached to the interaction. Fear usually keeps us from exposing ourselves and staying discrete. But then as you get comfortable, you start to get less fearful, then you start to open up a little more. As you meet and talk to people and start to read their blogs, you realize that "Hey maybe these people aren't as different as me". Then you start to really question yourself. Finally you ask yourself, Why would anyone be here unless they were looking for something, the same as me. It's somewhat like going to an adult movie and bookstore, we are fearful to be seen there, yet we know we want to get something from there. The first time, you go late at night and hop in then back out. As you get more comfortable you say to yourself, "I don't care, I'm going to do whatever I feel" Next thing you know you are on first-name basis with the management and the cashiers. They are calling you telling you about sales.

Overall in America we are too conflicted with what we want, what we think society expects of us, and what other people may think of us. Of course alot of it is real and can impact relationship and possibly even employment. But much of it is also something we put on ourselves. Sometimes we have to realize as a society that we are quite judgmental, sometimes too quick to judge others. Sometimes it's easier to look outward than inward. I think that as time goes by people either realize, who cares if someone see me(face or naked body). If your spouse see you, then maybe she should, might add a little excitement because obviously they are looking too. If your parents see you, then a question would be, why are they here.. Apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

I do understand discretion and you do have to look out for yourself, but risk should be mutual. Each person should be in a situation that they don't have to be fearful about their identiy and exposure, otherwise it's just not being smart regardless of meeting the person here or in a bar.

Oh well, that's my sexybbw926 inspired comment.

rm_dibert42 55M

9/11/2005 2:22 pm

I agree - which is why I have not posted a picture. While I may send one on request, as a married man, I'm not going to post it out there for everybody to see. Wouldn't mind seeing that sexy pic of yours!

lessfun 54M
2 posts
10/3/2005 2:31 pm

Miss this is a site for like minded people to get in touch IF possible in my openion its like a group so in case some one ask ( mom ) point is what is she doing on this site if elders are wise individuals they knowingly will keep mum to be discreat is have some respect dont brag in every conversation some one has he has to share his experiance and give out information about this apisode for me having sex is very pious nothing dirty if both the partners consent set the limits & have mutual respect i belive the purpose is achived either its going to be very memoriable experiance i belive in one partner who is very clean and if ever we meet in some different sourrindings its like nothing happned between us that is discreation

1 post
10/7/2005 11:12 pm

I totally agree, and no your not an asshole for sayin such. I'm not afraid to say I'm a mommas boy so i wouldn't want her to know about this either lol "i feel ya" 100%

1 post
11/16/2005 1:26 am

yes, discretion is a must for me too, since I am in a relationship. It is a completely sexless one, but a relationship nonetheless. My partner is unable/unwilling to be sexual since having a historectomy 5 years ago, and while admitting that sex is no longer part of OUR lives, I am unwilling to let it be out of my life entirely. So, while looking for that certain "zing" to be back in my life, being discreet is an absolute must for me, as well as not making a lifelong commitment to someone. I do not want a series of one-nighters, but I am not looking for a life partner or true love and romance, as I have no intention of leaving my current partner.

1 post
11/29/2005 8:36 pm

I am a single male so it just depends on each individuals situation although you are entirly right about these people with the big smiles but say I need to be discreet.Is anyone looking for something discreet give me a shout.

ImSouthernGuy43 57M
13 posts
12/8/2005 8:02 pm

i think part of the problem is some people are leading double lives,and this is a "fantasy",escape,whatever u want to call it,for them.they want the thrill,the excitement,with none of the responsiblity,of a real life relationship.by staying anonymous they avoid all these issues.ive been guilty of that myself ,in the past.im on a different plane now,not really looking,but if something happens,it happens,lol.p.s. not all the pics u see,are of the people they claim to be...........


12/11/2005 6:54 pm

Interesting question. Thinking about the English language and what words mean to different people. The definition of "Discretion" for me, aligns with your value for the word. After all, discretion implies "in good taste" and many people have different tastes. But posting face pics while requesting for discretion seems like a two faced liar. ISGuy43 does make an intersting point about some pics may not belong to the member. Lessfun makes a valid point if you look at the word confined to the users of this forum but we live in such a vast society of conflicting views on sex. Is it because of the religious founding of this country? Consider in Sweden that prositution is legal !! Hope that makes sense to all.

1 post
12/26/2005 8:52 pm

If you let me i eat that pussy and make you cum all over my face

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