Do women want sex to go on for hours?  

rm_sexmeup6975 43F
123 posts
7/12/2006 10:36 am

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Do women want sex to go on for hours?

Seriously. I know that is one of those things that guys just loooooove to throw out there...but does that impress you much, girls? See, for me I pop off the orgasms, and I pop them off rather quickly, provided we are both doing our job and doing our jobs well. So after a few of those the little man in the boat wants a nap. And if it continues on forever there is the chafing issue. Of course lube helps, if you actually bother with lube, but still.

So guys, how long do you REALLY tend to go?

Girls, how long do you REALLY want it to go?

I am not talking those rare hot nights where you cannot seem to keep your hands off of each other for more than ten minutes at a time, I am talking the average median time here.

Aaaaaaand discuss! Now. Do it.Don't be shy, we are all friends here.
*Edit* For the record I am talking about the actual intercourse...

MakMeLuvItBig 65F

7/12/2006 11:48 am

I like a GOOD sex session to last 45 minutes to two hours. An hour is fine. Although, when necessary, a hard and fast 5 minute "quickie" can be just the ticket.
The actual INTERCOURSE (tab A into slot is usually only a total of 15 - 30 minutes, but even that is not full time stroking. You'ld rub me raw. A few minutes dick, a few minutes tongue, then I'll lick and swallow you, then try a different position for a few minutes, try another, maybe a bit of anal, a little more tongue, some more dick, etc., etc., etc.
You get the idea. I look for the whole experience. You don't have to keep it up the whole time. When I want you hard, I'll GET you hard!
Then, if necessary, we can go again for a few more hours.

My Hubby can speak for himself but, from experience, I can tell you that he likes foreplay as much - or more than - the intercourse. He's even come just from going down on me! And he gets off running it between my breasts. He'd like it to go all night, just playing, even without much penetration. He's so good at what he does, I just lie back and lose track of time. He gives me orgasms in soooooooooo many ways! Regardless of the amount of penetration, when he's done with me, believe me - I'M DONE TOO!

And when I just need a good primal, raw, visceral pounding by a really big dick, I've got my boyfriend Mark. And that's another all-nighter! That thing never fades.

rm_diesel0263 55M
9 posts
7/18/2006 5:28 pm

well i like to lick and suck my woman.the body is to explore.a lot of times i will cum while getting them off but i get hard quick again.nothing better than natural tits and a wet pussy.getting old.can only go about 10 or 15 minuites at a time but can go several times if it taste good.taste and reaction sets the pace

here4itnowagain 56M
104 posts
7/24/2006 6:41 pm

mmmmmmmmm....a good hour the foreplay!!!

adventurousteve 50M

7/26/2006 8:44 pm

Almost all of the time, I can last as long as my partner needs me to so we can cum together. Once in a while I pop a little too early or I have underestimated how quickly my partner is ready to cum and I end up a few seconds behind her.

So, I can not give a time. It depends on how long she needs.

rm_diesel0263 55M
9 posts
7/28/2006 5:20 pm

dammm that is a perfect pic sexmeup

rm_diesel0263 55M
9 posts
7/29/2006 3:38 pm

i will do a private one on one but no group,lol,get too nervous.if i stripped for you i would probably lose it.

rm_diesel0263 55M
9 posts
7/30/2006 3:46 am

with a body like that i would shoot my load real fast.always gets hard again

rm_rocko4u1or2 61M
14 posts
7/31/2006 1:39 pm

very nice pic, hun. need help removing that cherry? lol.
seriously though, i'd like to be able to be your stripper, but to shy, i guess.
i've also tried to join and write you at that other fishy site, but it wouldn't complete the sign up. maybe someday though..........

rm_diesel0263 55M
9 posts
7/31/2006 4:54 pm

sexmeup as long as you enjoy life do not take shit from anyone because you are too good.always remember family is first

rm_gotti1965 52M
30 posts
8/28/2006 2:56 am

sometimes it verys but if i go to long i do not mind if she says she had enough but i love it when a women can keep going its sex enjoy it

rm_vini1949 68M

8/29/2006 10:00 pm

You're made for my sexuality. Love womens body and know how to drive them...... Can't leave myself for a second when I'm alone, saving the cum for a woman.

thrillseekers9 32M/34F
1 post
9/20/2006 9:05 pm

hey friendly couple from potsdam here...21m 23 f looking for some fun....wondering if you still do parties...we would be very interested...and could help in anyway us xxx

rm_gotti1965 52M
30 posts
10/3/2006 9:58 pm

its not i go and say tonight iam going to fuck for till the sun vomes up but you know when its going to be a quickey but long lasting sex just happens its not planned so go with and chaces are if its starting to hurt just your man and he will probably get turned on and blow his load then your everbody is happy

twistedmtl 51M

10/17/2006 6:20 am

2nd time is a charm, but the first should be 15-25 min. of overdrive! but dont forget the foreplay.

twistedmtl 51M

10/17/2006 6:21 am

twistedmtl3 at yawho

whorederve 56M

10/25/2006 2:02 pm

well, not sure if your still collecting data,but I findd it pretty amazing that you can go hammer and nail for an hour. I'm not sayingit can't be done, it's just i'm seeing alot of folks that can't walk up a flight of stairs. Which leads me to believe 1 hour of penis poking would be a lot. I happen enjoy a good roll in the hay,much the same as the rest of you, but I have to say it's up to the lady err as usual. The first time we make love can be a bit crazy. I mean you rarely jump right into bed ( although that happens) So after looking at some sexy breasts for a while I can't wait to see how sensitive they are.By then my dick is on fire.Which takes alot of practice to learn the ebb and flow of such things. Once you get the hang of it time isn't as important as how deep the orgasim is. I think that would be quite similar to the difference in a "petit mort" and a toe cracker..but then i might be full of shit..

hydeparkmale 45M

11/26/2006 2:24 pm

i dont last as long as id like the first time maybe 15 mins the second time im good for 30 to 40 mins

waywardboy4u 62M
154 posts
2/26/2007 2:59 pm

I like this topic Its Real & thank you Ladies for being realistic.
I like to play Intercourse is just part of it .
laugh if you like Makin love . Is not Love Per say it a way of treating your partner new or old fuck Buddy's,LOL.
In that...
I love to Kiss Lick & Tease a womens body, Probing it with my warm wet Tongue or My strong hands & fingers ,Hell just grassing your nipples with the tip of my Nose has sent women in to Orgasm's ,Mmmmm
Putting my cock in for a few well place pokes & strokes LoL is Hot Hearing & Tasting her excitement is as much a turn on as feeling that wet pussy grabbing my hard cock !
Probing ur sweet tight ass Bring Her To as Many Different Types Of Orgasm's Is what turns me on
Yes having her suck My Raging hard Cock & Licking up my hot cum Lick a sundae as I suck her clit pinch her nipples Its all part of having Great Sex..!!
As for How Long
Just sliding in & out slow 30 mins to & hour If your wiggling & moaning Or Exploding Ur cum all over me & I 've got both hands under ur sweet ass & bang like a jack hammer Maybe Just Maybe alittle Less LOL
After the first one for me I like to keep playing thats when the best Climax's occurs. & cuddleing with her afterward with my cock still in her spoon like Thats Hot ! All night if its right or short & Sweet is Hot Too 1-2 hrs .

Redhottinvt 50M/49F

3/20/2007 7:56 am

I love all the little things that lead up to intercourse..I love to lick and nibble every inch of my wifes body and highten her senses. I may only last 10- 15 minutes, but over all it all lasts 45 to 90 minutes...After 20 years of marriage to the same woman I have never had any complaints.....

rm_stistud 49M

7/9/2007 9:33 am

It all depends on the woman. I wait until she has had 2 or 3 orgasms and then I let it go.

ToadsCynicCoals 66M
205 posts
7/13/2007 5:54 pm

I'm the same as your Hubby, I like the Foreplay as much as the grinding it out sexual intercourse! I enjoy giving oral & am quite content to give as long as my partner likes. Then we can get to the main event.

rm_want2beplezd 48M

11/4/2007 1:09 am

Wow - disagree with that "study" greatly! Eight strokes? Come on, that's just stupid. Maybe that's true for teens and very young adult males, but any guy who has been around has learned some self control and timing. Kegels work wonders for strengthening those "hold it back" muscles.

I typically spend anywhere from 5 minutes to two hours on foreplay, then alternate with touching, finger-fucking, oral sex (for her, for me, alternating), and mix a couple rounds of penetration in the whole thing. Depending on the woman, I'll make her cum a few times before I get to the SERIOUS intercourse.... but some women tend to get too sensitive after an orgasm, and you can't play with the clit anymore after that.

My (late) wife used to love a good 15 minutes to an hour of kissing, touching, and talking dirty, as foreplay - another 15 minutes or so of alternating oral on each other (sometimes with a couple rounds of brief penetration as an exciting "tease", and then once she would cum from my oral ministrations, we'd move to IMMEDIATE penetration (right at the end of her orgasm) and that would make her cum again, 100 times harder than anything else...... following which we'd go for usually 10-15 minutes before I'd explode in her.

So I'm going to say start to finish, everything included, 30 minutes to an hour is USUALLY plenty. It's not "quantity-time" it's "quality-time" Add in an extra hour for teasing and romance, for those extra-memorable sessions and special occasions (birthdays, anniversaries, vacations, etc.)

46 posts
10/26/2008 7:16 pm

I like to give a lof foreplay. ZThen I like to cum several times. The beuty is every time I cum and get hard again it lasts longer the next time. I hae gone over two hours for one cum at times. I have to be careful though many women get sore if you do this. Some like that Many don't. It is tough finding a woman that can handle this on a regular basis

The Sea is a Harsh and Unforgiving Master

rm_InkSlngr1972 45M
4 posts
12/3/2008 5:33 am

Just the other day I was with a friend of mine who couldn't believe that all I wanted to do was eat her out. I PROMISED that if she didn't want to I wouldn't take my clothes off and I didn't. I made her cum 2 times with my mouth and I let her ASK ME to take my clothes off. we spent the next hour or so having sex/makin love/fuckin, whichever you want to call it. I am a firm believer that it is NEVER the same every time. sometimes the woman is so hot and the esex is so intense that 15-20 minutes maybe even half hour is all it takes. I have been known, on the farely regular occasion , to last well over an hour, mostly actual intercourse. granted we do change positions and use PLENTY of lube, I need to by stock in wett, KY and shit like that, LOL. truth be said I have YET to get a complaint from ANY of my sexual partners whether they be male or female. it is a matter of what the situation calls for...

jimmer07 47M
1 post
6/19/2012 6:09 pm

Its always what the female wants. If she wants it to last I last and if she wants me to cum I cum. I always ask before I cum.

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