Why am I on here?  

sexloverocknroll 58M
282 posts
6/1/2006 5:50 am

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6/9/2006 6:13 am

Why am I on here?

This is an adult sex site, right? A place where people can hook-up for sex. There is porn links on here and cam sex and all the latest in sexually explicit material via the internet. This is a place where married people can cheat and swingers swing and tons of men looking to score. There are a few very nice women on here looking for love to go alone with the one night stands. There are women on here looking for sex with other women and then there are blogers. Blogs about sexual encounters or sex stories or wishes or fantasies. Then, there are tons of fake profiles. Fake photos and fake people who do not exist, just a ploy to get you to come to this site or others. I am noticing fake blogs as well. Long magazine articles about current events with some fake woman’s photo attached to it. Go to her profile and it is shut off leading you to other fake profiles or she is 22 and has a Master’s degree, a 300 IQ and looks like a supermodel and promises to have sex with any one. Money talks, sex sells, and we are all buying. So, what the hell am I doing on here?

Not so many people come to read my blogs. That is okay and not so important to me, but having a venue to vent and work-out my thoughts is very important. Maybe if I wrote sex stories, but I have forgotten how sex feels, so how could I make a good story? This is a sex site, so why am I on here?

In July, I am going to Jamaica to meet in person a woman I have been corresponding with through e-mails and phone calls. Why a Jamaican woman? Because no American’s one gave me the time of day nor answered my letters nor did anything but play games and tell me I am not good enough. Besides, she is a very good human and a great person. She has a very kind heart and she is smart and laughs at my jokes and wants the same thing I do: a family and a best friend. Right now, I feel very confident it will work out, but I know that it may not either. So why then am I on here still?

Can not help but feel lately that I am wasting my time on here.

rm_bucfannn 62M/61F
2110 posts
6/1/2006 6:46 am

I think that people come on to this site with unrealistic expectations. I mean really, do you think you can put up a profile and get laid all in the same hour? That's basically what this site claims it does.

Find your f**k buddy in _________

Other than the sex is right up front, it's just like ANY other dating site on the web. Games are played. Bullshit is slung. Et al. And, you men have to deal with the pros, hookers, and fakes.

Doesn't seem fair, does it? Well. Like EVERY OTHER dating site out there, you have to weed them out. If someone seems too perfect, they usually are.

Good luck, sweets.

sexloverocknroll replies on 6/1/2006 11:00 am:
Thank you for your comments. So, you know what I am talking about then. Yes, I have been on other sites and got the same song and dance, just not as bad as on here. I gave up on this site long ago, but I was getting something out of my blog. Now, it does not seem to be what it was before.

RevJoseyWales 70M/67F
14393 posts
6/6/2006 9:20 am

It's only a waste of time if you give up. Keep trying. Trust me. You write intelligent material, and people will notice eventually. There are fakes everywhere in this world, and AdultFriendFinder is full of them. But there are lots of good, real people here too. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

sexloverocknroll replies on 6/6/2006 11:12 am:

rm_kalanchoe88 55F

6/8/2006 7:26 am

We're not all fakes. Sorry you're feeling down. Keep writing through it. I enjoy reading your stuff.

sexloverocknroll replies on 6/8/2006 3:13 pm:
I never intended to say everyone is a fake on here. Sorry for the misunderstanding. Thank you for coming here and for your comments!!!

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