How we ajoined together on AFF  

sexgoddess1275 42F
75 posts
8/2/2006 11:09 am

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How we ajoined together on AFF

What factor or occurence in your life brought you to AdultFriendFinder ?
Recent break up of a marriage/long term relationship
Cant get laid anywhere else
Married and need to get laid on the side
Your totally anti-social and cant meet ppl on ur own
Looking to add more people 2 ur current relationship
You just cant get enough action
You thought coming to AFF would get you an instant piece of ass??
Your a pervert and just purely bored
Or the good old BS work to much and dont get a chance to meet anyone

buddhamike 107M
7006 posts
8/2/2006 12:41 pm

Actually it was part work related (as I voted) and part socially inept. Any way I got a new career and I looked up from my desk one day and realized that I hadn't been involved with a significant other for about 3 years. So, lacking in many social skills (I could well have voted anti-social)I turned (as any nerd would) to the internet. Let me tell you, it's been a blessing. Thank you AdultFriendFinder.

nicegirl4girlfun 42F

8/5/2006 9:43 pm

Induljme quit indulging me so now Im back looking for more fun!

legsallthewayup 55F  
37 posts
8/21/2006 2:02 am


Disagree Neutral Agree

What do you think?

I agree!I'm neutralI disagree!

I came here cuz the judge told me it was THIS, or a lifetime of sexual servitude in jail. I chose jail, but they were full up, so here I am. Handcuffed and naked, but serving my sentence with as little dignity and grace as possible. I am here, because I believe that anything worth doing, is worth OVERDOING...that a true measure of a persons worth lies exclusively in their genitals and abilty to SAY genitals without snickering.

No, truth is, I am here because I have been afflicted with Chronic, acute and terminal overactive social gland disorder. And some days, this is the only relief i get from the hellish social chasm where i exist.

just kidding, i wanted to hang with the hip chicks and get lots of anonymous, unskilled booty. so THATS workin out pretty good for

SirMounts 103M

8/23/2006 7:56 am

Well, I was surfing the net one day and, well... here I am. The same good fortune that I experienced once again, when I discovered your blog, sexgoddess. *smiling warmly*

AsDesired 58M

9/8/2006 3:24 am

Before I could possibly tell you how or why I am here, I first need to find out where this is?

sexgoddess1275 replies on 9/9/2006 1:21 am:
Well THIS is AdultFriendFinder the land of opportunity for the desperate underfucked or the insatiable never can fuck enoughs....Ok so there's a small percentage in between..But rest assured the longer ur on AdultFriendFinder the more strange, unusual , and some times just playing unhuman things you shall see. So stay tuned and enjoy the ride...

sexymanguy1970 42M
15 posts
9/11/2006 2:18 pm

Sex GODESS! It all comes down to many things. I love sex, And so does my wife, but she cant seem to come to grips that the attention i give her is more than adequate for a normal marriage. She needs constant attention and since she is a stay at home home she has opportunities like many do not. Anyway she cheated on me with my best friend. ( WHaaaH!) I'm over that. And now i feel i need to get my manhood back thus getting any touch with any SLUT who will have me. (WHaaaH!) Dont take it personal because i do like you. But I want to Fuck someone! TODAY! That was my long story short.
...\8>>! LOVE YA SEXY

sexgoddess1275 replies on 9/12/2006 12:40 am:
Ok now my intentions here were not to be giving advice or consoling anyone.. But on this I must.. Your wife being a stay at home Mom has little interaction with the real world and probably has little contact with other adults.. I was once in that same position..It is a very lonely position too. She probably cheated for the actual attention part and the sex was just an added benefit.. Also.. um... NO ur not over it and my conclusion here is that it bothers you therefore u must screw someone in return to "screw" over ur wifey.. Ok carry on ..Have a good Day.

sexymanguy1970 42M
15 posts
9/12/2006 10:29 am

your right!!

sexgoddess1275 replies on 9/13/2006 2:08 am:
DUH!!!!!! I know

rm_dancs42 48M

9/15/2006 7:31 pm

Oddly enough, the main reason I usually can’t get laid most anywhere else is related to my reputation as a nice guy. If I meet people through mutual acquaintances, the potential date is already poisoned with information about how nice and friendly I am. If I try to be more brazen or bold, it either comes off as BS (which I guess it technically is), an attempt at humor, or the bar has been set so high for me that I come off as an ass. You’d be impressed at how many women I have in my life who couldn’t picture me not being in their life, yet would never get romantically involved with me.

At AdultFriendFinder : sex is usually in the conversation early, so there’s no misconceptions on that topic. I can weed out the women who say that they want a nice guy, but are secretly looking for someone to push them around. I know ahead of time if they are cool with me dating multiple people, and my underlying desire to eventually find someone compatible for an exclusive LTR. Communication is required to further friendships here at AdultFriendFinder…

…That’s the big one. One lady I am dating this year, whom I met through a mutual friend, doesn’t like the phone, doesn’t like emailing, and is so busy that we only squeeze in 2 to 3 short dates per month. When we talk, we barely get past the weather, work, and a little about family and friends, and only rarely reach that point where conversation on the deeper topics flow smoothly. We were introduced in January, and in 8 months of dating I still don’t know this lady as well as I knew any of the other women I am dating (all from AdultFriendFinder) prior to the first face-to-face date.

AdultFriendFinder forces many people to share in more detailed, extensive information before meeting. And if a person doesn’t put any effort into the communication, or is clearly a liar, it is easier to simply let them slip away before a strong attachment forms that the slow process via so-called normal dating.

In a word: Efficiency. AdultFriendFinder is simply a more efficient community for dating.


sexgoddess1275 replies on 9/15/2006 9:06 pm:
Wow Congratulations to you. I do believe you are the first I have heard that has such a positive outlook on the dating situation on AdultFriendFinder..And also never have I seen "the dating" scene described so well. Good luck to you in your search for fulfillment.

1teaspoonfull00 47M

9/16/2006 9:03 am

I just wanna fondle them

sexgoddess1275 replies on 10/6/2006 1:11 am:
Ya Teaspoon I know you secretly love me...lmao... But come on now ...everyone will know

rm_VroomerZ 38M
1 post
10/14/2006 11:23 pm

Well, I moved to CA about 2 years ago due to my job. At that time, I tried to get into the whole online dating and meeting people thing. It wasn't something that I invested a lot of time into.

I am back now because I am about to go through a career change and have been in the same life rut for two years now. Need something more. (not sure why my other post was cut off...)

Also, dancs42's post is quite well written and explains the delima of being a 'nice guy'. Women don't want a relationship with a nice guy, they want a friend. Well, nice guys need lovin' too.

rm_gorgio2004 47M

10/23/2006 10:04 am

Greetings from Dublin, (east bay) , yummy profile you have and I am just hoping to enjoy a nice warm weekend aboard my love boat in the Delta Bay. Massages and drinking margaritas under the open sunshine.
Hope to hear from you, and please check my video introduction, you may like what you see.

Steel_Legs 60M/F

10/31/2006 10:07 pm

Hey there sexoddess,
I didn't come to AdultFriendFinder, techinically they came to me. True story - their marketing people told me that they had an over abundance of young sexy people and they wanted some stodgy old fart types like me to make it more real. So they pay me real money to participate in this little experiment, and they also take care of my membership dues.

That's my story and I'm sticking with it!!!


PS - You ever going to write anything more in your blog? Come on girl, get with it!

sexgoddess1275 replies on 12/3/2006 5:36 am:
I'm never ever bloggimg again.. Sorry but I cant live up to the quality of writting you and the Amazionian self proclaimed non-lesbian's style of writing. Fogive me for I have failed you two.........

rm_jgreystone 70M
2 posts
11/16/2006 8:42 am

I like your hair

sexgoddess1275 replies on 12/3/2006 5:38 am:
Wow what a coincidence me too!!!!!!! lmao

rm_jgreystone 70M
2 posts
11/16/2006 8:44 am

I have the same affliction

OdinWood 44M
27 posts
12/3/2006 2:18 am

I am just an internet geek, and I built this new computer and I am such a kinky boy that I look at nude stuff online so it eventually lead me to come to AdultFriendFinder. I have live in Arizona since I can remember and was even born here. I would love to meet some really interesting new people for safe fun and hopefully for the experience and traveling would be reat too.

sexgoddess1275 replies on 12/3/2006 5:34 am:
uuummm ok that sounds just slightly

OdinWood 44M
27 posts
1/13/2007 6:54 am

I wanna fuck some one wanna help me with that?

rm_ptw4 36M

3/25/2007 2:03 pm

sex ur the reason i joined AdultFriendFinder take that

sexgoddess1275 replies on 3/27/2007 8:45 pm:
See!! I knew it.. AdultFriendFinder owes me some pay for recruiting members, even if I do it unknowingly..Haahaahaahaa .. No but really.. WHERE'S my cut!!

rm_scbadboy2006 36M
5 posts
2/7/2008 10:13 pm

Actually, it's a combination of the 1st option (end of a relationship - not wanting to get into another one right off the bat) and the "B.S. line"! Yes, it's hard to have a life when you're working your butt off, and then somehow walk into the gym for a workout with whatever little energy you have left - leaves just enough time to come home, take a shower, hit the sack! Boy, this page has been DEAD for a while!

sexy_rexy2000 57M  
430 posts
6/17/2008 10:48 am

I joined to meet new people, that are open and want to seriously meet new people. I think that most people on AdultFriendFinder are here just to see what is what and do nothing about it. They are really afraid to meet someone they have no clue who they are going to meet. A lot of People especially women are afraid. They join and then oh my god ... people really want to meet me and then they do nothing or put you off and put you off. I have more fun meeting someone in my local bars and dancing with them and then seeing what happens.



5/2/2011 10:27 pm

What can I say? I am being honest! Youre very pretty!

chocman26 42M  
153 posts
8/10/2011 12:48 am

I will have to go with "cant get enough action"...from those that i am interested in locally.I think thats why i decided to open myself up to meeting those in other areas,plus i never mind driving 2-4 hours...better than staying at home with nothing to do on my days off.

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