what do you invision??  

sexedcravednemph 36M/32F
101 posts
4/24/2006 6:37 am

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what do you invision??

I have read a few blogs here lately. I have come across the questions about swinger's parties. Now I myself have never been to one but would actually like to try something like that. This is not to say we are hosting one are anything of that nature. It is however to strike up the conversation about the unknown. If you went to a swinger's party....How would you act? What would you do? What would you desire to come from such a party. When I have not tried something or are interested in trying something, I like to let my imagination run wild. I invision a gathering. Although I never invision certain faces or certain body types. The only thing I invision is....couples and singles enjoying a few drinks. Then after the drinks....I see conversation and relaxation occurring. Along with that comes attractions to certain people around you. But where do you go from there? Do you grab a condom and a person and head for the nearest room? Do you Begin to flirt and maybe kiss? does the action take place amongst everyone for all to see? Or do you just let your emotions take you where ever you fall? I can always invision everything up to that point. And at that point i remember that I have no clue what happens next lol I know i have never been and I am not sure if I will ever be able to attend one. But isnt it just fun to have certain dirty thoughts that you alone can invision and make your on. I also invision things I have done before or certain things I already have. Like for instance....sometimes I invision some of my dearest swinger friends (you know who you are )
All together at once just hanging out. Now from there I would be able to invision a swinging party. However from the point of view...of walking into a stranger's house and meeting many different couples is a little hard to imagine. This is not to say I would not attend a party as such. However I just dont know how my visions/feelings should/would go from meeting and socializing in that setting. Dont worry lol I am not asking you to help me invision something...but I am asking if you have ever had an unfinished fantasy? If so, what is it...if you dont mind sharing. Would love to hear your thoughts. Any an dall thoughts are appreciated and most welcome.
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neotrio 42M/39F
1213 posts
4/24/2006 1:53 pm

other than the fact that neither of us has been to a swinger's party, i can't speak for "the man's" actions...but as far as how i'd react....i can't really speak for myself either. i have no clue. i'm intimidated by the idea of a room full of swingers. i think i'd be overcome with sensory overload; too much to see, hear, smell, taste, feel. i'm comfortable with one-on-ones, two-on-twos and even two-on-ones. but at a swinger's party i'd be out of my element.

but if i had to imagine the most comfortable scenerio for myself: we'd gather at someone's house. there'd be food, there'd be drinks (lots of drinks.lol.) there'd be music playing, people talking, people flirting then someone i'd been eyeing/flirting with all night would just start kissing me. we'd find a quiet corner and start going at it, probably not realizing the growing audience, and then after seeing them...putting on a little show but acting like we hadn't seen them yet. they'd get excited and start playing with each other and things would just escalate from there.

who knows how i'd really act. it's exciting to imagine but i'm still intimidated by the thought of actually going to one. but...never say never.

thanks for stirring things up,
~neo


neotrio 42M/39F
1213 posts
4/24/2006 1:55 pm

wow. how did i do that thing with the hand-cuffs?? uh...that was an accident. but in case you can't read it it says "two on twos and even two on ones"

lol.


sexedcravednemph 36M/32F
260 posts
4/24/2006 4:58 pm

lol I totally understood the handcuff thing. It was actually very cute I thought. I think in all honesty I would feel the intimidation as you. I totally understand where you are coming from. It sounds fun but then again it sounds a little scary huh? not scary as in a killer on the loose lol but scary as in oh gosh what do i do now? what do they think of me? Maybe i will just sit here and enjoy my drink and hope someone flirts lol I honestly dont think I would just sit there and drink but As I said it is a pretty scary situation. please dont confuse scary as in something I am scared to try Kisses and care to you neo


six_foot_local 36M
10 posts
4/30/2006 4:48 am

Ive never been to one and wonder the same thing. But, for guys at least, I guess if they are in that situation and head #2 takes over all sensibilities fly out the window. Even weirder than that, what would the situation be like if everyone at the party was new at it? Probably comedy, thats what i think anyway.
As for unfinished fantasies i guess ill go with the classic me and two women, but I'll tweak it a bit and jazz it up with 2 Japanese Tourists. What can I say, guys are simple


sexedcravednemph 36M/32F
260 posts
4/30/2006 6:47 pm

six fott local- haha lol Yes guys are simple. It is a good fantasy though. And when an dif you do finish it....it will be fun. I will agree with you on the comedy if everyone was new. It would be like 10 yr olds at their first dance lol but then again with alcohol involved and head #2 for guys it could be very different
Thank you for dropping by my blog. Come back anytime
care & kisses


sexedcravednemph 36M/32F
260 posts
5/2/2006 11:22 pm

dear hotelcouple-
I totally understand weeknight schedules. Sometimes plans just dont work out like they should. But there is always rescheduling right? I am sorry your get together didnt happen. I know from personal experience how bad it sux when your plans crumble lol However a get together with you guys sounds like a lot of fun. Thank you guys for stopping by my blog.
care & kisses


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