No title, others do it why not me??  

sensually_4ever 43M/F
349 posts
5/7/2006 8:10 am

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5/22/2006 4:22 pm

No title, others do it why not me??

Well...

I recently saw a member of AdultFriendFinder that I hadn';t seen in a long time come back into chat, and I was delighted. We chatted for a bit, he used to be quite a popular member so eventually others cottoned on to who he was, and he started to get really busy with the chats... some people even came into the room specifically to talk to this person...

This got me to thinking about my time, errr prolapsed time on AdultFriendFinder. I started thinking and realized that it has been almost 1 year since we joined AdultFriendFinder.

I look back with many fond memories at those who have come and gone outta the BC Chat room. Some were distinctive, with witty type and interesting sens's of humour.. Others, merely retained my attention and memory cause they talked and they laughed with me. I will always fondly remember those I have chatted with, and gladly chat with them again...

Now the abusers... hmm Got hit up with one of those too, recently. Seems I forget the abusers as soon as they go away. Probably my emotional blocking thing at work I think. Anyhow, recently I was in chat, as I often am, and I was hit up by someone who said hello to me. Now If you say Hello I will say Hello back. This abuser went on to chat with me a lil more.. then asked where another member had gone as he hadn't seen her in a while.. used part of her handle name followed by B****...

Well now, those of you who know me? know what that does to me. I immediately started to determine whether the chatter in question was being derogatory on purpose. Turns out he was, so me being me, started to rip a strip offa him.

He knew my name.. and he knew the girls name to whom he was referring to. That was a little scary for me, Because I NEVER give out my name in chat. .

Anyways.. as usual I end up rambling for far too long...LOL

I like to chat and I like to make friends.. I like to blog and I like to kiss... (boy do I ever)

Soo. catch you on my blog or in chat, or I see you as you come and visit my blog...

Have a pleasant day, and a beautiful life.

Sensually_4ever

AKA First_timers2005
AKA Sens
AkA sensy
AKA Kiss SLut


LOL


VELVETGIRL69 52F

5/7/2006 2:52 pm

Good on ya Sens...wish there were more people like you that understood the importance of how abuse affects us.

We don't need to put up with destructive behaviour on any level. It is easy to figure out the healthy people with the way they speak of others. When a man talks trash about another female he has no respect.

I have been letting people know about my ex but doing it in a factual way without profanity and name calling. Just the truth and nothing more.

I have not been in chat much as I don't want to bump into him. I hope you continue with your growth as you seem to be and think you are a great person even from your blogs and the few times we have chatted in here. Keep up the laughter and the fun times...I enjoy your blogs and wish happiness to you.

Velvetgirl


rm_LoyalCumpany 47M
3204 posts
5/7/2006 3:02 pm

Yet another reason I don't like the chatrooms here. Some folks just take out their problems on people online when they're impotent in real life, and it's just pitiful..

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!


sensually_4ever 43M/F

5/7/2006 5:09 pm

VElvet

OMG you were in chat today and I didn't recognize you

I am sooo sorry..LOL

I looked at your handle.. and thought. I should know that person too

eiii yiii yii

Haven't seen Lexx.. anywhere on chat though.. come backkkkkkkk

LOL

Sens


shasta1973 44F

5/7/2006 8:43 pm

lol....so does this mean I cant call you shastas bitch?


sensually_4ever 43M/F

5/7/2006 10:58 pm

Of course you can call me SHatsa's bitch..LOL>

that IS and honour that is always reserved for you


nedthebundler 58M/60F

5/7/2006 11:10 pm

Sens,
Well, I'm not going to be mean to you. Not even if you ask nicely.

Madness takes its toll. Exact change please!


ilsgicemru 73M
2822 posts
5/10/2006 4:25 am


...................... Sens

Sorry that I haven't been visiting much lately .. I'm pre-occupied with some other things going on in my life .. and somehow . things just seem different on the blogs .. Like . I'm putting some things in perspective !! .. Just trying to sort out a lot of changes !!

I just wanted you to know that I still think about you and the journey that you are on as well !!

Love

......................... ils


sensually_4ever 43M/F

5/10/2006 6:17 am

ty Ils sweetie


elmo_n_tigger 45M/43F
4 posts
5/22/2006 3:05 pm

Ok... this post is funny, in a sad way. We all have moments of doubt and insecurity and sometimes we take them out on others. As long as we don't make a habit of it we should be fine. But there are people, If we can classify them as people, who take every opportunity to demean, denigrate, and outright be nasty to people. I have a habit, NAY a reputation for being somewhat of a dink. This is come by very naturally as I am just a guy who umm likes to mock and make fun, Of not just people but EVERYTHING around me. Of course this has led to me making enemies and people just not grooving on my vibe. However, I honestly feel that deep down I am a fairly easy going, habitually nice guy, I just have a low level tolerance for stupidity. Those people I like I bug more, Those people I love OMFG, how can i say things like that about them. I love , respect, and cherish my wife more than anyone could possibly imagine. BUT, she is the massive brunbt of my jokes , because she can and does laugh at it. If, NAY when I step to far outta line, she places me FIRMLY back in place. Those of you who have had the pleaseure(read:tragedy) of meeting us will notice I am the one taking the majority of the smacks and abuse.. I love it, I thrive on it, and I respond with like. There is a time, space, and energy involved in being a chat bastard. Most of all there is Love and Desire for giggles and guffaws. I try damn hard to not offend people, but to get them talking and communicating about taboo things, this is fun to me. I apologize to those I may habitually and involuntarily offend. But, I cannot be me without being a dink...lol... I have met and Love sens. she is wicked fun and helps me to use my overactive diseased imagination. I love this fact about her. Keep up the good work and for the love of PETE(I really wanna meet this pete guy) Stop hitting me with that FUKN wand.. sheesh
Elmo and Tigger


sensually_4ever 43M/F

5/22/2006 4:22 pm

ok ok ok ... the wand is gone...

From hence forward I shall whap ya with a hooter for your digressions

Sens


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