sensually_4ever 43M/F
349 posts
4/21/2006 3:54 am

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4/30/2006 10:18 am


Well People

I did something... I stepped out of my bubble and realized that I might have some issues.

I am going to see a cousellor today for the first time ever. It realy was a huge step for me to admit anything was even wrong that I needed to sort out.

I have to admit, very candidly, that I am a lil scared.. scared of what I may find out about myself, and scared of what the cousellor might reveal to me.

I realized that everyone has issues that they may need help dealing with and that there is no longer any stigma attached to seeking outside help in exploring your feelings.. bnbut still.. a cousellor?

Next I will be telling you that I need a sex therapist

Oh well I guess I could use my blog as a untutored couselling session too

Well sens.. is there anything you would like to talk about???

Yes Sens, I think I need to discuss my unsatiable sexual appetites and my urges to eat corn pops...
Can I be fixed??

I guess... That I should get the idea of being fixed out of my head too. Things of the heart and head are not so easily mended just by yakking at someone. They are mended by you mentally?? realizing that these are opinions and attitudes you need to change really. Detrimental thoughts to your self.. and how you deal with your other half, your family and the people who surround you.

Well.. we shall see what comes about... one thing is for sure..LOL

I won't be stopping chatting and certainly not blogging dammit...

they will never take my freedom!!! (shameless rip off from Braveheart I know)


bluegirl39 51F

4/21/2006 5:42 am

I think you will enjoy it..just relax and talk..its great trust me..hugs..unless its a guy who can't stop looking at you boobs of luck lady

sensually_4ever 43M/F

4/21/2006 7:57 am

lol TY

LilSquirt_4mfm 68M/68F
3394 posts
4/21/2006 8:11 am

sensi .. Hiya

so, is the problem "sex", "cornpops" .......or doin both at the same time. If councellor jessica is going to help, she needs to know every juicy detail.

More seriously .... good goin gal .. deal with issues that affect you negatively. I have some, one especially powerfull one that i am dealing with ...finally .... so i encourage you

Say, at ils's request / suggestion, i re-opened my initial post ... at start of blog, as a place for friends to leave messages .... that is out of the way of everyday stuff .... and for friends of friends etc ..... you especially are invited to use it ... go to 1st post, on page 3 i think, or use this link The Secret Tree House


rm_uberguod 51M

4/21/2006 9:46 am


Good luck on your very personal journey and adventure. I am sure it will be exotic, erotic, and exciting.

Whatever you do, don't be scared of what you will learn about yourself. Trust me on this. Anything that helps you understand yourself better is a benefit and can only make you a stronger, wiser, and more capable person (an uber_sens perhaps ). And from everything I have garnered from your blogs and chatting, you have awesome people around you to help you negotiate any rough spots you may encounter (are you reading this shasta?).

And funny enough, I just ran across an awesome quote from Picasso at the gallery this morning... 'Je ne cherche pas, je trouve (I don't seek, I find)'.

good luck with the exploration,

the uberguod

nedthebundler 57M/60F

4/21/2006 7:38 pm

I'm glad you are breaking out of the shell, can't wait to meet the new and improved Sens....

Madness takes its toll. Exact change please!

rm_jackie40503 71T
1323 posts
4/22/2006 4:45 am


There is nothing to be afraid of hun, and it really can help sort out things that you might not even be aware of at this stage. So go in there and be completely open with the therapist as it won't help if ya hold things back. I think I shocked mine when Jackie popped out back in Oct of last year, at least his expression when I told him was really precious, but it really has helped me work through the many issues.

Hugzzz and Kisses,

shasta1973 44F

4/22/2006 5:29 am that uber hitting on me???? ...AWESOME!!!

shasta1973 44F

4/22/2006 5:30 am

lol...oh wait, this was supposed to be about, still stuck on uber hitting on me....hahahahaha

sensually_4ever 43M/F

4/22/2006 11:16 am

you little bi atch

sensually_4ever 43M/F

4/22/2006 11:17 am

*ahem* everyone else.. ty you for your notes of supposrt.. and yes

Couselling did make me realize things I hadn't relized in the past..

Issues I have to deal with

Things I have to let go of.


ilsgicemru 73M
2822 posts
4/23/2006 4:52 am


......................... Sens

I just got caught up on your blog .. Read back to the strip poker night !! ........... I wish that we had regular meet and greets here .. Several groups have tried to do that . but I don't know how sucessful the meetings are !!

I have benefited greatly from individual therapy and group therapy !! .. I haven't been for years . but I am going back tomorrow !! .. I need some help at sorting out some things with my marriage !! .. I am ready to call it quits right now but I want to be sure that I am not going off "half cocked" here !! Lol

Six months ago I would have had a hard time talking to the therapist about my involvement with the internet .. Today . after being on this site for almost 7 months . I am comfortable in telling him all !! .. I'm Ok about what I am doing here . and it is a large part of why I can no longer tollerate the loveless marriage that I find myself in !!

Hope that you come over and catch up on my blog .. Still running around naked .. Lol ... If I don't see you there . I will see you at Lil's tree hut !! .. Keep up the good work !!

.......................... ils

saddletrampsk 55F

4/23/2006 8:35 am

Great blog..
You are cordially invited to [post 319220]..hope you can make it..

shasta1973 44F

4/27/2006 2:09 am

ohhhh.....look mommy, pretty bubbles.....

sensually_4ever 43M/F

4/27/2006 8:51 pm

LMFAO.. you brat

NO NO NO NO shakes finger NO NO NO NO NO

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