CHatting and Hook ups  

sensually_4ever 43M/F
349 posts
3/11/2006 6:44 am

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3/15/2006 6:10 am

CHatting and Hook ups

I recently had a discussion with a new friend from A.F.F. about fast food chatting. ( he coined the term I am merely borrowing it of course)

Fast food chatting is when men , woman, or couples come into the chat room, and they expect instant sex and hook ups...

They think, that all they have to do is say hello go automatically, and presto they have sex for the night. LOL

Nothing and I repeat nothing in life is ever that easy, with exception being Drive through fast food. Drive through fast food is in most cases very bad for you for a variety of reasons.

Why would fast anonymous sex really be any better? It feels destructive to me, and like someone is trying to fill an empty hole in their lives. Now some of course, the anonymous sex is their kick, and all the best to them. For me as I am coming to discover that anonymous sex kinda leaves me cold. I like to be wooed a little, and I like to kow that the person that I am sleeping with will still be my friend after we have commenced the "deed"

I tried this kind of sex a very long time ago, when it was me trying to fill a hole in my heart, and convince myself that I was worthwhile and attractive. All that particular journey left me with, was guilt for being morally "loose" and feeling emptier than ever.

Now the popular complaint is that all people do is talk about sex in chat rooms, and not actually do anything, and to these people I say... Stop, have a look around, get to know some people and take the time to pick and choose those you like. For me personally hooking up only happens after I have connected with someone enough that I am physically and mentally attracted to them.

OIY VEY (channeling my inner yiddish woman here) I really do tend to ramble without connection don't I? LOL.. oh well

hmmm rewards for reading me today, Boobie flash, as that never gets boring does it?

well toodles, and tile next tiome.. see you in chat as I wander around goosing everyone...LOL


rm_jackie40503 71T
1323 posts
3/11/2006 11:37 am

Great post sens and I totally agree with you. Without the connection the act is meaningless and leaves you unsatisfied. Unfortunately those who stop here to read your words either already agree with you or will not be the ones going to the chat rooms anyway. I have the same thing happen with things that I write and don’t know how to get the message out to those who really need to be told.

Hugs and Kisses {=},

sleeplessknight1 69M

3/11/2006 2:44 pm

Yes I agree Jackie... great post...
tc Sens.....


spacecadet561 61M

3/12/2006 3:30 pm

Thanks for the perspective, which I've been slowly developing over the last few days. Thanks also for being the first to comment to my blog.


ilsgicemru 73M
2822 posts
3/13/2006 11:23 am

..................... Sens

Did you know that when your profile is tuned off .... Your blog drops
off of the "watch" list ?? ... At least it did on mine !!

I saw those two sexy posts of yours and will read them later !!!

How long have we known each other now ?? ... And you haven't joined
the Succulent Club yet ?? .. Well get your sweet boobies ..
right over there and sign up !!! .. Please !!!

Here is the deal !! .. I need about six more members . to do a full page
spread on a future post !! .. When I do the post . all the members will
have their photos on the post ... I am hoping to get more members .
after that to fill another page !! ..
You sure would look good on that page . Sweetie !!
Lil Squirt is allready a member . and I am going to ask Jackie
and Sleepless to join as well !!

I am sorry that I haven't visited you in awhile ... I am busy on the blogs
chasing a bunch of new femail friends . Lol . and I need to be grateful for the friends I already have . and spend more time with them !!

I will read your other posts in a little while ... and comment some more !!

...................... G

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