So what is it?  

sec0ps 44M
3 posts
2/28/2006 10:18 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

So what is it?

I tend to frequent the same places for lunch for multiple reasons. First being I usually choose a place for the food and the second being I also choose a place for the staff.

There is this small eatery here in town that serves awesoem food, reminds me of NYC style high end cafe's which is why I guess I like eating there. The staff, being mostly attractive women is also another reason I continue to eat there.

Enough of the back story and right to the "So what is it" that started this thought train.

So what is it that keeps a girl from being honest and just saying "Hey this is what I want".

The girl that works during the lunchtime is very cute. Tall, thin, long blonde hair about to the middle of her shoulder blades, blue eyes, funny and of course flirty but married.

The thing that drives me nuts is she makes it overly obvious she is interested, or at least shows the classic signs. Such things like touching my hands when i`m looking over the menu as she makes suggestions or rubs up against me as she walks by making eye contact.

Of course I haven`t really pushed the issue more than inquiring how the marriage goes to which she replies with nothing but positive remarks. So what is it a happy girl just enjoying the flirt or a happy girl seeking another mans touch but doesn`t want to just lay it on the table.

Sometimes I wish girls/women would just lay it on the table and say I want this -- then again, where is the fun in that =)

saddletrampsk 56F

2/28/2006 10:51 am

she seems clear as mud..

sexysiren1957 61F
20 posts
2/28/2006 10:54 am

If she says that her marriage is good, I really don't think she wants anything from you except a good tip. She is probably just an outgoing, touchy-feely type of person and you are reading more into it b/c you are so attracted to her.

moonlightphoenix 46F
6508 posts
2/28/2006 12:04 pm

I'm sure she doesn't think she's being obvious about being interested. She more than likely isn't. Like they said above...probaly wanting a good tip, and notices the way you perk up when she acts girly with you. Not that I'm cynical, but a lot of guys think women obviously want soemthing more from them, when that is in fact, simply NOT the case. Don't embarrass yourself and make it awkward by pushing it.

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