NSA vs FWB...what works for me.  

sbfrommaine 49F
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1/2/2006 12:26 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

NSA vs FWB...what works for me.


I have given up on the concept of NSA (no strings attached) working for me....not that I haven't indulged a few times in the past with a complete stranger who I never see again....couple of times I never even caught his name...shocking I know. That is truly the only way to have a NSA encounter. This is not a fulfilling thing for me.

My next option is FWB (friends with benefits). I am having some difficulty with this one as well...although I think the difficulty lies more with the people I am with rather then myself. I am at a stage in my life where I think FWB can work for me. I don't want a real relationship now....maybe someday, not now....and the idea of having one or two friends that I can also have sex with is very exciting to me.

It is nice to be able to connect with someone else on more than a sexual level, but to still have a sexual relationship. It is obviously more of a challenge to have FWB relationships. You have to keep your emotions in check...safeguard yourself and the other person from getting more involved then is appropriate. For me, that is what works for mow. I am not ready to be anyone's something special. I am having fun being unattached and not having to deal with all the other complications that come along with a true romantic relationship. I know I want it again someday....I had it once and it is the best feeling in the world....having your best friend and sex partner all wrapped up into one awesome package. However, for now I am just looking to have some fun....keep it casual...and make some new FWB's.

dooralwu 52M

1/9/2006 6:50 pm

FSB is beneficial to a world that is rushing arround to fast. It can make you feel alone while in a crowd. I would like to meet one of those strangers and become friends.


NEsailor 70M

6/14/2006 12:59 pm

I had a lot of what we called "zipless" sex back in the '70's, but I also have some dear long time friends that are still firnds in bed when the opportunity persents. If you're a man & a woman who like each other & trust each other, it's a natural.


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