What Does It Matter  

sazzyagain 45F
574 posts
9/1/2006 8:34 am

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What Does It Matter

Last night i ran into something in the chat room that I just don't get...maybe some of u could help me figure it out.

To me, a true person...someone i can call a friend, is someone who is there for me when i need them. A true friend is someone who I can joke around with, be serious with and someone who i can just kick back and enjoy my time with.

I do not look at my friends as to what they look like on the outside...that means shit to me... a true friend is what they have on the inside. How they treat other people, how they treat me and how they treat themselves. As we get older, our physical apperance changes, its a fact of life, but our inner appearance only grows more beautifully.

A pic means nothing to me, i don't care what my cyber friends look like...they could be older, younger, bigger, skinner, wrinkley, long hair, short hair...blah blah blah. Really honestly does not matter to me. And if any of u don't beleive this, u can ask a very good friend of mine that i met on here when i joined...we talked almost everyday(and still do)but talked for almost a year before i saw what he looked like. And just cause he wasn't wat i pictured, doesn't mean i don't luv him any less as a friend.

I guess the point I am getting across...or at least trying to...is that there r lots of profiles on this site that have fake pics. Does that change the way u think about the person. I read a blog one time about someone who fell in love with a ladies pic...they talked and talked and talked became really good friends and decided to meet. When they did meet obviously the woman's pic was not her...she apologized for her actions. Even though they did not bed down, they remain friends till this day cause he got to know her as a friend.

Some point in your life u tell a lie...weather it be a big lie or a little white lie. I guess on here, some lies r in the pic. Now, if the drunken bastard that was attacking my friend about a pic reads this....get over yourself. Its a fricken pic. Get to know her for who she is, a smart caring lady...someone u will never meet as u r one of the biggest liers on here. I hope to meet this lady someday as it is her inner beauty that i luv . People in the world today should realize it is wat a person has on the inside that counts...not wat is on the outside.

Have a good day all


ZZ_Todd 61M

9/1/2006 9:53 am

Yep... seems that a few of these witch hunts gets out of hand. Some people just like being noticed, and in lieu of any original thoughts, they just go for the quick notoriety of "uncovering the truth" about something... that really doesn't matter anyway.


sazzyagain 45F
3003 posts
9/1/2006 1:16 pm

    Quoting ZZ_Todd:
    Yep... seems that a few of these witch hunts gets out of hand. Some people just like being noticed, and in lieu of any original thoughts, they just go for the quick notoriety of "uncovering the truth" about something... that really doesn't matter anyway.
I know wat u mean...it almost seems like they get their jollies from destroying others. Anyway, thanks for your post


Good2BeANurse 53F

9/14/2006 12:52 pm

Sazzy... People change outwardly over time, we all do, some get more beautiful outwardly, aging gracefully, while others have led a hard life, and do not age as well. Some people can never match their inner beauty, with their outward appearance, others are so ugly inside that they completely diminish their outward beauty. I have seen the latter many times, people so full of themselves, that they cannot see the beauty around them.

As for the attacks in the room, drunken or sober, they should not bother anyone, for all it is someone FINALLY showing his true colors. He has shown his heart is as black and cold as a chilly Winter's night, and how well his soul matches the pitch of his heart.

I have recently been blessed enough to spend time with two wonderful people from the Lobby. My time with them has been grand, one I love as much as a woman can love a man, the other I love as a sister loves her brother, and neither of them have found me to be fake or less than genuine. My point is this... let the drunken troll think what he likes, it does not matter to me. I know who I am, both inside and out. Perhaps he is so unhappy with his life, that he must try to destroy others to have a purpose in his own.

Life is too short to judge people by looks, race, intelligence, or finance. It is far better to embrace the differences in us all, and learn to be more caring and kind. Why cast sadness upon someone's face by being mean, when you can instead brighten it up by causing them to smile? When I am cold and dead in my grave, I hope my tombstone reads of all the wonderful things I've done, and not of my beauty, for the flesh is only worm food, but good deeds change lives, let me be known for changing them for the greater good instead.

All my love to you and to Billy... great blog Sazzy...

Love, Dee


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