Participation in Anticipation  

sassysmartgrrl 47F
108 posts
8/23/2006 2:09 pm

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9/8/2006 12:52 am

Participation in Anticipation

I used to have this rather firm rule that a firm meet was a walk away, which I had gotten a bit lacks about on a few occasions, but recent events have got me thinking, how hot does waiting for it make it, now I am not talking in a traditional make em wait sense. However, when I think of all the super hot sex I have had it seems to have sprung out of some kind of anticipation, wondering how the other person touches, what there kiss is like, is it soft, earnest, just enough lip, with the right amount of tongue (perfect in my book) or will it all jump the shark when the kissing just doesnít click? It all really starts with a look though doesnít it, a light touch, more truly the right touch, which is different for every person, the trick I suppose is finding it. The finding takes a little time, looking around the person, their personality, finding out what they like, let it build. I think the fact that I like to wrap all of the gifts I give in interesting ways says a lot about how I am sexually, really interesting presentation and a interesting and pleasant surprise inside. Thatís all todayís musings folks. Leave a comment. I donít bite, hard.

rm_YipYazoo 51M
22 posts
8/23/2006 2:52 pm

Foreplay comes in all sorts of ways, means and time-scales. And as you say, anticipation certainly plays a part. Indeed, anticipation and expectation are the two sides of foreplay's double-edge sword, IMHO.

Yes, I suppose you could find the right people who can please you (can you please them, too?) in just the right way, instinctively. And for some people, perhaps it's good enough the first time, and subsequently, it's practice, practice, practice!

But of course, to keep the "relationship" evolving, the participants need to watch, listen, learn and otherwise be communicative of how to mutually please each other.

If you and other readers of your blog are curious of one way (there are hundreds, if not thousands of other ways!) I can interpret foreplay, please take a look at this blog entry Kissyface.

BTW, I like presents, giving and receiving!


rm_aranayd 47M
2014 posts
8/23/2006 6:43 pm

You are absolutely right about anticipation making the event more exciting. That first touch can cause shivers through the whole body, if the moment is right and not rushed. But then, build-up is the key to any woman's sexual arousal.

hereIgoagainy 61F

8/26/2006 11:22 pm

It's in the kiss... If the kiss isn't long enough, supple enough; if the tongue is like a patriot missile repeatedly blasting past your supple lips nearly gagging you, it's a no go. Though I have had bad fucks from great kissers, it is usually because of other issues such a a first time encounter, some people are shy about their nude body, others... are just poor fucks I'm afraid. It isn't the amount (though a sizable endowment as they love to call it here is extra nice) it is about the sensuality of the lover. People either have it down to an art or are amateurs... what happened to the average ones?

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