the number you have dialled has been disconnected.  

sassyangel2006 53F
84 posts
5/22/2006 9:04 pm

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6/21/2006 12:41 am

the number you have dialled has been disconnected. see someone on think they're fact more than nice. you think they are more tasty than a rack of lamb, sweeter than a lemon merangue pie, as cool as a cucumber...and funny as a banana joke!

so, you email, you share, you joke, you chat. and with each email and every day, you find out more and more that you like about them. there's a chemistry, a connection, a spark, and you want to know if that spark will light your fire in real life!

do you ever get scared of actually taking it off the internet forum? do you feel that its too good to be true and you dont want to test it out in real life? do you ever feel so scared there wont be a physical spark when what you have on here is so strong that you dont want to risk spoiling it by actually meeting??? does this sound crazy???

what say when you meet, after all that connection you just dont spark physically??? would you want to remain their friend, or would you cut them off totally???

dating has changed so much in the 17 years i've been out of the game.., the way we connect, the places that we meet, the options for interacting.

the last time i dated, there were no cellphones (except those bricksized ones that came with a battery so large it needed its own carrybag) the pc didnt exist (computers were still the size of a large room) and text was something you found in a book, not a way to communicate your dating details...sometimes i feel like a fish out of water, a pollyanna stuck in modern day living.

am i alone in feeling like this? or do others feel as confused about dating as i do???

chasingfun27 39M
1108 posts
5/22/2006 11:16 pm

I think the major concern with this forum is that a person only has to present the parts of their personality that show them in the best possible light.

But hey. Everything worthwhile is a risk.

rm_anydoor2 65M
14 posts
5/23/2006 3:22 am

I am as perplexed as you but my search is fairly simple as I am only looking to find a lady who needs to be touched and carressed and made love to passionately.I am frustrated as I know there are ladies out there but I don't know how to find them hence the foray into this domain.I believe that, as long as you are careful about anonimity ,you should explore the merits of each match ,or advance ,so you can have fun along the way and expect that one of your liasons will result in the ultimate adventure that you are seeking.I don't believe you will find the right recipe unless you test each one which comes along.If you don't spark physically when you finally meet don't worry,the adventure was fun and gave you more clues to help with your selection in the future.

sassyangel2006 53F

5/24/2006 11:56 pm

i think i'm looking for more than that, which is why its so difficult. its very easy to find meaningless, no strings sex...hell i've been there done that, and i think i've ticked it off my list. what i'm looking for goes deeper than that..which is why i'm finding it near on impossible

bulging_boy 50M

6/7/2006 1:52 am

It just depends on where you're looking.

Sometimes you find it in the most unlikely of places, and often when we find someone that matches our 'ideal' as far as looks and physical appearance are concerned... that's pretty much all they have to offer.

That's not to say it doesn't exist and it can't happen. Hell. I'm living proof it does. Patience is a virtue, and on sites like this... the paths are not all paved with gold.

Good luck tho.

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