Voids and landfill  

sammiesunshine 47M
155 posts
6/24/2006 2:22 pm

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7/1/2006 8:15 am

Voids and landfill

We all have voids in our lives. Big gapping voids. Some of these voids are so big we don't even realize that they are there becouse they are so big. Some are so small that we don't notice them until they have been filled in.

We try to fill these voids in our lives.If we are lucky, we can fill them ourselves. Sometimes it take a lot of landfill to fill up these voids. Sometimes it doesn't take much.

I hate the voids that seem like bottomless pits. The ones we just can't seem to fill. The ones that you fill and fill and fill and fill and the void never goes away.

Then there is the void that takes the special land fill and you just can't seem to get. It always seems alusive, just out of reach, attainable yet unattainable.

Being stood up sucks, it sucks even more when its on the rain check.


JazzDlight 61F

6/24/2006 6:39 pm

I am sorry you got stood up. Seems to happen a lot on this site so it seems. People get cold feet, etc. But what is worse is meeting someone and really liking and spending time with them, going out for a few dates thinking they actually like being with you and then all of sudden they just disappear and are not interested in you anymore, making up any excuse they can not to see you, etc. That happened to me last year, won't bore you with the details but to me that is worse than being stood up any day. Hugs, Jazz


ArgosPlumyKooky 46F
3902 posts
6/25/2006 12:07 am

that sucs. . .runs off to attempt and fill in gapping voids


sammiesunshine 47M
162 posts
6/25/2006 1:11 pm

    Quoting JazzDlight:
    I am sorry you got stood up. Seems to happen a lot on this site so it seems. People get cold feet, etc. But what is worse is meeting someone and really liking and spending time with them, going out for a few dates thinking they actually like being with you and then all of sudden they just disappear and are not interested in you anymore, making up any excuse they can not to see you, etc. That happened to me last year, won't bore you with the details but to me that is worse than being stood up any day. Hugs, Jazz
That like last year. I dated this women for three months over the summer. Slept over just about everynight. Had wonderful sex, thought that life was a bowl of cherries. Then I was told one day, that I was just a summer fling to occupy her time, while her kids were away for the summer.

Kicked to the curb in an instant. That one stung and left a mark.

I would have been all right if she had been up front and said she just wanted a boy toy. Probably wouldn't have stayed the night as much, but she would still have gotten plenty of action.


sammiesunshine 47M
162 posts
6/25/2006 1:12 pm

    Quoting ArgosPlumyKooky:
    that sucs. . .runs off to attempt and fill in gapping voids
Need any help? I love filling all sorts of voids.


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