Standard Members  

sailingandsex 55M
8 posts
8/10/2006 12:16 pm

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8/12/2006 6:12 am

Standard Members

Ok so I always thought I was realatively intelligent until today.

I have sent several emails to members, and was pretty pisssed that NO ONE had replied and then relaised that I wasn't checking who I was emailing. They were nearly all standard members!!

If I have emailed you and you can't get back to me I am sorry for being so stupid, not too sure how you all get around this, but lets see if you can use my screen name to get in touch outside of this site.... I live in the UK that might help with the latter stages.

Have a go but be discreet in case you get the wrong person....

Hope to hear from you all soon

2daycowboywanted 46F

8/10/2006 12:42 pm

So what are you trying to do?

Until later

sailingandsex replies on 8/11/2006 7:56 am:
well primarily I am trying to make contact with similar minded adults.

If your comment was more specifically regarding this post I was trying to establish how we all make contact if standard members can't contact silver or gold members.

The point I was trying to make, a bit more subtly than this, was that my IM names all contain my friendfinder screen name.

I just wondered if anyone could work out how to get in touch, but I suspect that as LadyGray pointed out, they just HADN'T replied rather than couldn't


LadyGrayLeopard 57F
26385 posts
8/10/2006 1:21 pm

to my understanding it is possible to reply...
But they just didn't... not everybody here is polite.

I have stopped mailing to guys as I got replies neither
Seems I was too openminded...

Just one comment still:
how close you were to their profiles and what they were looking for?? That might me one explanation not to get replies if you are too far from the ideal person.

But some standard members are really fakes, and some not active at all. Check next time when they have been on the site last time.

sailingandsex 55M
7 posts
8/11/2006 7:51 am

Thanks for this comment, it is a shame that people can't be bothered to reply, even a quick response would be better than completely ignoring the message.

Interesting point that they may no longer be active, I will pay more attention to this when making contact.

Thanks again


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