Why we joined AdultFriendFinder.  

sac_geek_cpl 42M/43F
16 posts
5/18/2006 8:38 am

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5/27/2006 5:04 pm

Why we joined AdultFriendFinder.

We just celebrated our seventh wedding anniversary. The "open" part of our relationship isn't new, it's more than seven years old, but the opportunities to explore the "open" part of our relationship have dwindled over the years.

We both just turned thirty. Many of our friends seem to be taking the yuppie road and giving up on their alternative lifestyles. They're all have babies and buying houses.

But we're still dedicated to our alternative lifestyle. For a long time we've stayed away from the swinger's community because we're not into the whole casual sex scene. Recently we decided it’s time to throw away our preconceptions. We’re trying AdultFriendFinder with the hope that we can find like-minded people.

We want friendship and intimacy. For us, sex is an act of intimacy. It's something you do with someone you at least care about. We like to have sex with our friends. And friendship isn't something we consider casual either. We want to know people that'll stick around. We want to have people in our lives that we have something in common with.

We know that sometimes the chemistry just won't be there. We’ve met people in the past that looked great on paper but the chemistry just wasn’t there. Or we didn’t have anything in common with them. There has to be something more than sex to base a friendship on.

We understand that friendship doesn’t appear from the ether. The first part has to be casual. We'll set up dates with people and do all the introductions. And hopefully we’ll meet some people that we click with. We want friendship more than we want to fuck. The sex will come naturally, if the friendship is able to develop.

I suppose some people would call us too serious. We want to get to know our sexual partners, before we actually have sex with them.

Our relationship is solid. We’re wouldn’t bring people into the mix if it wasn’t. We have very specific rules for our open relationship, that have served us well over the last seven years. I'm looking forward to finding out how this community can be a part of our lives.

Writen by PinkHairedGirl.

angelofmercy5 60F
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5/18/2006 11:57 am

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