Tantric Sex: A Basic Framework for Understanding Energy  

ruexperienced66 51M
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12/3/2005 1:08 am

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Tantric Sex: A Basic Framework for Understanding Energy


Consider for a moment dropping the cultural garb which surrounds us and return to the more primitive time when humans lived in tribes without MF relationship concepts. In the time before the science of the sperm and egg was introduced, the mystery of sex was, in fact, a mystery of fertilization. The origin of life.

It is here in the primitive origins of life that we can easiest understand the foundations of tantric sex. If there is a goal in tantric sex, it is not orgasm, rather, but experience and knowledge.

Consider if you will, primitive woman. Her body is the key to the survival of the tribe, and her ability to fertilize herself fundamental to life itself. In this female/goddess oriented world, consider that the woman's magic is responsible for the entire cycle of life. Her body, foremost, once a month preparing itself to be fertilized. And with her energy, to draw a male to herself, arouse him, draw him into herself (make him hard), and draw his seed into her body (make him cum). In this past era, only intuition and the primal forces of nature guide the process. Primitive urges.

Because of how closely conception/fertilization is connected with the biology of life, here we find a vast source of energy. If only we could harness it...

Tantra is about mining sources of energy which exist at the two extremes of the rainbow. Like keeping two magnets close enough that they attract, but not so close that they stick, and not so far away that they are flaccid.

Ordinary sex is derived from the goal of fertilization/conception. And therefore, it has orgasm, or mutual orgasm as its ultimate pleasure and intent. Tantric sex is about finding the source of the energy which gives rise to sexual activity. Limitless energy. This energy can be found in the biology of conception/fertilization. But we do not find it by following fertilization to its end result of orgasm.

Instead, we do exactly the opposite.

We learn how to find the exact spot of balance between the male and female energetic forces, that time/space in between foreplay and orgasm, and we reside there. We remain there, in effect, frustrating the biological goal of conception/fertilization which has, at its underpinnings, the goal of spraying the male seed into the waiting female body. So instead of complying with the natural course, we work intentionally against it. Not aggressively, but rather allow us to get close enough (to orgasm) to make it interesting, but not so close as to end the experience.

So in tantric sex, the man may not orgasm for months or even years, despite continuous sexual activity. Even as the womans body is designed to draw the seed into her womb, by holding the seed back, while at the same time fully engaging the erect penis in her body, the energies which drive the biology of the planet flow through our bodies.

Tantra is about finding hidden sources of energy and using them to grow and evolve our own lives and the lives of those around us. Tantra + sex = tantric sex.

ruexperienced66 51M

12/4/2005 1:07 pm

My personal training and viewpoint (highly related) are derived from the path of yoga. The goal of yoga is personal, has nothing to do with having or not having a fe/male partner. The goal of yoga is to become permanently centered in a clear, enjoyable state of mind. The practical aspects of tantric sex are merely by-products of the techniques that have been left behind by the yogis/yoginis who have travelled this path before us, and have provided us with hints and instructions for our own path. I don't have any comments on the cultural origins, because I was not there. I am using tribal culture as an context to describe the primitive forces which guide sexual behavior so that they can be examined without relationship concepts for what they are. Essentially.


silkysmoothlegs3 106F

12/18/2005 4:27 pm

Ive never done any of this
Would love to learn
silky x


ruexperienced66 51M

12/18/2005 10:27 pm

I believe divinitydesires has a friend in the UK who is interested in tantra.


ruexperienced66 51M

12/19/2005 7:20 am

Primarily posture and breathing make it much easier to control, allowing one to explore territory beyond where one would normally venture. It is the new experience we seek.

Possibly quite different and quite a bit better. Only you will know.


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