Online Dating - 6th DON'T  

rm_zahuma2 51M
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5/14/2006 5:10 am

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5/29/2006 12:00 am

Online Dating - 6th DON'T

Don't appear too eager to go on a date

Unless a woman immediately asks to meet you (and some will), a rule of thumb about asking a woman for a date is to wait at least a week after the initial contact before asking her out.

If you ask her out too soon, when she's not ready and comfortable, she'll disappear.

If you wait, one of the things that will go through her mind is, why isn't this guy asking me out?

When that happens then is that you'll instantly become more attractive to her.

What to do:

Let her make the first move. If she's the kind of woman who wants to be pursued, she might be a high maintenance princess, and that's the last thing you want to deal with.

Play it safe, play it cool

Now, we're all a bunch of macho men, but you can never be too safe. The last thing you want is to be involved in a real-life fatal attraction.


01. Online Dating 1st DON'T
02. Online Dating 2nd DON'T
03. Online Dating 3rd DON'T
04. Online Dating 4th DON'T
05. Online Dating 5th DON'T
06. Online Dating 6th DON'T
07. Online Dating 7th DON'T



Mermaidslut 51F

5/28/2006 7:00 pm

Soo true! The second guy I ever talked to on this website, and still do, had posted info about where he could be seen once a week, in real life. In case anyone wanted to see if he was who he said he was, and what he looked like compared to his picture. However, the place he mentioned was a place where he went every week - to cash his paycheck! Yikes!

I had to email him, and told him to please take that info down. As he was a big, 6'4 guy.. he had never in his life thought of safety rules like that.... until now.


rm_zahuma2 replies on 5/29/2006 12:05 am:
1. Thanks for the visit to my blog.
2. You are right in saying that one should always be safe.

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