Online Dating - 4th DON'T  

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5/14/2006 4:38 am

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Online Dating - 4th DON'T

Don't send too many e-mail or IM messages

Again, you don't want to appear needy.

One way to appear needy is by sending a woman three or four e-mail or IM messages a day.

Of course, if the e-mail or IM conversation is moving along at breakneck speed and is interesting and stimulating, then by all means, have a full-fledged dialogue with her. In other words, don't hold back. You may even try to close the deal right there and ask her out on a date.

But if you're in the early stages where you're still in the process of getting to know each other, then I suggest to keep your interactions to a minimum.

What to do:

I know it's difficult, especially if the woman is hot, but you have to be disciplined. Limit yourself to two e-mails per day, and keep streaming IM conversations to no longer than 15 minutes. If the dialogue exceeds this time, then excuse yourself and end the conversation, saying that you have some things to take care of - and don't go into detail about it.

By doing this, you'll remain mysterious, something that turns most women on.

Please refer to my blog Dating Tips
Para 5 - Be a Mystery

01. Online Dating 1st DON'T
02. Online Dating 2nd DON'T
03. Online Dating 3rd DON'T
04. Online Dating 4th DON'T
05. Online Dating 5th DON'T
06. Online Dating 6th DON'T
07. Online Dating 7th DON'T

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