Conquering a Woman's Heart  

rm_zahuma2 51M
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4/2/2006 8:42 am

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Conquering a Woman's Heart

Conquering a woman's heart is for many men more or less some kind of a minefield. Certainly, women contain every ingredient needed for making a Molotov cocktail, and the key is to handle them gentle enough not to set them off.

Women have the privilege of PICKING while men try their best to convince them that they are the best choice possible. Just to give you an idea of how simple it can actually be, I'll just list a few of the things needed for the "big conquest".

1 ‒ Patience - This is not a hit and run thing and showing some patience tells the woman that you could represent more than just a waste of time. Forcing a woman into something - she does not want to do - is a major mistake that will most likely cause irreparable damage to the relationship.

2 ‒ Humor - Aside the relaxed atmosphere they create, funny guys inspire optimism and positive attitude. After all, do you like a woman that always complains about something?

3 ‒ Wits - Without some activity in your brain she could take off before you know it. Nevertheless, a savant attitude will, most likely make her feel bad and underestimated. Keep in mind that women fight for equality and never try to show her what an undiscovered genius you are. After a couple of minutes of relaxed, humorous and subtly witty chat she will figure you out by herself.

4 ‒ Sensitiveness - Despite some opinions, women DO like sensitive men. Nevertheless, there's a big difference between a sensitive man and a weak man. Let her feel that she can rely on you, that you're always on top of the situation but you can listen to her problems and maybe even help her out.

5 - Good Looks - Let her understand that you take care of yourself. A clean and tidy person will most likely have a clean and tidy relationship.

6 ‒ Punctuality - Men are NEVER allowed to be late while women HAVE to show up a little late so the man knows she is still to be conquered. More than that, it is the woman's way of letting you know she was preparing herself to look her best for you. You should never come up with excuses for being late, even if they might be true. Any excuse is just as pathetic as the next one, so if you think you can't make it in time simply let her know with some time in advance.

Conclusion - The list could go on and on but the idea behind everything is the same: Always be yourself, treat her as your equal and understand her as a human being and not as a good catch. Women always sense these things even if you don't say them out loud.

runzwithknives 61F

4/2/2006 9:43 am

No one should be late in my book. It's rude without a phone call. And none of the woman I know run late on purpose. We are busy. Most of us have jobs and such. So need to be conquered? Hardly. I run behind most of the time. But I always adjust "dates" and push everyhing back at least 1/2 hour. If I'm earlier, I use the time to just relax (even if it means sitting in the car at the park when meeting at my mans place).

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