Let Go  

rm_xxSpecialKxx 47F
2785 posts
6/12/2006 8:01 pm

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Let Go

Ever Get the feeling your being watched? stalked even why do people just not get that things are over they may not have been, but when the bitterness gets the better of a person and they do a series of crazy things , things that are so terrible its hard to ever forgive that person and that person is suppoosed to love the person theyre doing this too!! how does being devious sneaky & calculated nasty justify love?? why does this happen why do people continue to try and hurt ruin control them through other means friends family associates etc going at every angle possible to get at that person the 1 that they pushed away to begin with the 1 that loved & supported them!! because i am finding that really hard to understand any light on this would be seriously appreciated right now & very welcome xxx k


Djeeper1987 48M

6/13/2006 6:11 am

I guess considering what a person goes thru after loosing someone they probably never though was going anywhere. What I am trying to say is, maybe he though things were going fine, then alllll the sudden he is out of the pic and feeling bitter cause of it? I am not saying what he is doing is right, but both men and women have had breaks up from which they don't understand why, what happened? If those answers are not given, shit can sometimes hit the fan pretty quick. Thats just my take!

Carpe Diem


aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
6/13/2006 12:45 pm

Hugs! The one thing that I can say is this just happened to my best friend (a girl). She had her bf of one year stalk her when she just asked for space. I think that the reason why this happens is b/c is brings more attention unto them. They are trying anything and everything they can to be validated by the one person that they love, you! This does suck and shows great insecurity on their part, which pushes you away even more... sigh... I'm sorry.


goodguysneedit2 57M

6/14/2006 12:37 am

Does this mean I have to stop?


goodguysneedit2 57M

6/14/2006 12:41 am

kidding of course


xxxtallorderxxx 47M

6/14/2006 2:20 am

normally to me it's because they have a personal agenda


rm_xxSpecialKxx 47F
1614 posts
6/16/2006 6:25 pm

    Quoting Djeeper1987:
    I guess considering what a person goes thru after loosing someone they probably never though was going anywhere. What I am trying to say is, maybe he though things were going fine, then alllll the sudden he is out of the pic and feeling bitter cause of it? I am not saying what he is doing is right, but both men and women have had breaks up from which they don't understand why, what happened? If those answers are not given, shit can sometimes hit the fan pretty quick. Thats just my take!
hello djeeper xxxx
your right in what you say yes but in my case its different he caused all the craziness in 1st place due to his behaviour & the situation has gone way to far now to turn back , but thank you for commenting and like i said your right in what you said and it was relevent to lot of relationship break ups, this 1 tho is way beyond repair & sadly all because of his own doing x mwahhh djeeper big hugs xx k


rm_xxSpecialKxx 47F
1614 posts
6/16/2006 6:27 pm

    Quoting Djeeper1987:
    I guess considering what a person goes thru after loosing someone they probably never though was going anywhere. What I am trying to say is, maybe he though things were going fine, then alllll the sudden he is out of the pic and feeling bitter cause of it? I am not saying what he is doing is right, but both men and women have had breaks up from which they don't understand why, what happened? If those answers are not given, shit can sometimes hit the fan pretty quick. Thats just my take!
hello djeeper xxxx
your right in what you say yes but in my case its different he caused all the craziness in 1st place due to his behaviour & the situation has gone way to far now to turn back , but thank you for commenting and like i said your right in what you said and it was relevent to lot of relationship break ups, this 1 tho is way beyond repair & sadly all because of his own doing x mwahhh djeeper big hugs xx k


rm_xxSpecialKxx 47F
1614 posts
6/16/2006 6:30 pm

    Quoting rm_Lucifer_65:
    Sometimes K babes i think it`s a desperate attempt to cling on to what they had, or to try recapture it. Others i think it`s just an outward symbol of whatever pain they may be feeling at the end of the relationship. The last i guess would be just pure vindictiveness, to hurt whoever they think is responsible regardless of the truth of the situation.

    One thing all three have in common is the selfishness of the person concerned honeybuns, they have no thought or concern for the other person they`re upsetting and hurting

    Luvs ya ya fabulosa wacky sexy babessssssssss
LUCIFER MWAHHHHHHHHHH xxx
Thank You Darling My thoughts exactly your a fabulosa samosa dude you know that hunny luffs ya darling big hugs xxxk


rm_xxSpecialKxx 47F
1614 posts
6/16/2006 6:35 pm

    Quoting aascrompn:
    Hugs! The one thing that I can say is this just happened to my best friend (a girl). She had her bf of one year stalk her when she just asked for space. I think that the reason why this happens is b/c is brings more attention unto them. They are trying anything and everything they can to be validated by the one person that they love, you! This does suck and shows great insecurity on their part, which pushes you away even more... sigh... I'm sorry.
Aascrompn Welcome Back Good to see ya hun xxx
And i think you kinda got it in my case also to add he hasnt delt with initial issues of why this has all happened hes far to busy feeling sorry 4 himself and attention seeking from others to think about why weve ended up here so i guess until that day he'll carry on wallowing & pushing me further like you said so thank you hun 4 very valid comment hope your friend is ok and came through it all ok and thanks for taking time out to share your view with us big hugs hope to see you soon (its always a pleasure) mwahh xxk


rm_xxSpecialKxx 47F
1614 posts
6/16/2006 6:39 pm

Goodguy xxxxxxxx

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
YOUR STALKING IS VERY MUCH WELCOME & ALWAYSSS A PLEASURE HE HE WINK WINK


rm_xxSpecialKxx 47F
1614 posts
6/16/2006 6:46 pm

OOOOH ARK AT CHOOOOOOOOOO
SHOULD BLIMMIN WELL HOPE SO TOO MWAHHHH BIG HUGS LOVELY 1 xxK


rm_xxSpecialKxx 47F
1614 posts
6/16/2006 7:23 pm

Hiya Tallorder /xx

Yep he has 1 of those all right trying and making a drama out of a repairable situation, by distracting himself away from the initial reasons why this has happened & he does this by involving everyone & anyone that will listen (soft touches ) & hopefully beleive the exagerated version of truth he pushes onto them & eventually i think he actually believes it himself creating false reassurrance that he doesnt have a problem its everyone elses fault never his in this particular case my fault & therefore why should he get help!!! I guess when it comes down to it the truth is hard to take because it would mean having to admit that he himself has a problem & therefore would have to start addressing it and helping himself to somehow correct this but that takes hard work and also having to admit he was originally at fault & wrong something he finds impossible to do so the fantasy is the much easier option.

Thank you for your comment Tallorder You always hit the nail on the head your fandabbydozeyyyyyyy hun you know that mwahhh and seriously big hugs 2 u xxx k


eveready06 43M

6/17/2006 2:33 am

Keep smiling hunny! You havn't put a foot wrong so far and the way you are I know your not going to in the future! Don't worry about what other people think, the important people in your life know the truth and thats what really matters isn't it! Certain people could spout lies and exaggerations all day and people still wouldn't believe them as they know you and what you are and aren't capable of so let them try every trick they know to get into your head, it makes no difference, they just end up looking stupid and as people realise this more and more of them will stop listening to them and come to know whats really going on. You've got some real strong friendships baby and its those friendships as well as your own strong personality thats going to get you through this and you'll come out the other side a stronger person. There is an end in sight, remember that! Luffs ya baby!!! xxx


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