Wish I knew what to say...?  

rm_xenodragon77 41M
12 posts
8/30/2006 6:25 pm

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Wish I knew what to say...?

What do you do after you break up and have a daughter when she asks....Why are you and mommy not holding and kissing and never together...Well not those exact word but close enough She is only 3. All I keep telling her is Mommy and Daddy Love you very much And give her a big hug and a kiss on her forhead..and she hugs me back. But then next Time i see her same question. I just don't know what to say to her.

Any Ideas?

Well Thats all for now....

Before anyone asks...Yes i am a proud daddy and yes I wish I could see her every day. But life doesn't always give you what you want. We Just do the best we can =) *Keep Positive*

rm_xenodragon77 41M
7 posts
8/30/2006 10:50 pm

Yeah thats all i can do for now....But I just wish i could tell her more then that...just because she is my little girl.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
8/31/2006 4:39 am

That's a very hard question to answer to a little one. I do agree with MZhuny that if you can stay friends with your wife it will be the best for your little one. But as she gets a little older, you will be able to explain to here that although you both love her very much, you just cannot be together as a husband and wife.......but that you'll always be a mommy and daddy.

Iwakura16Eyes 38F

8/31/2006 10:08 pm

it is very hard... I am in the same situation with my 2 1/2 yo....

her daddy is in Nebraska... and things are still odd... I dunno how I will explain it one day, but i will try....

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