I don't get it  

rm_wondering57 60F
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6/3/2006 9:39 pm

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6/3/2006 11:38 pm

I don't get it

Well it is June. Met and talked to a few people (maybe more than a few) but no one wants anything real. Everyone wants to play. Nothing else.

I just don't get it. Do people really not want other people to care about them? Do they really not want to care about anyone else?

I finally met someone I thought was real. He talked real. We talked on the phone for days, hours at a time. I sent pictures, so no surprises, except for me, as he had no picture. Everything was going great. Then, we meet, have what I thought was one fabulous evening and POOF!All gone. I just don't get it.

My only idea is that I have a child still at home, whom he met. I mean there were no other surprises. And he knew that in advance too.

You know, we can only be who we are, to the best of our ability. It just never seems to be enough. I am a nice person, fairly attractive I have been told, a little overweight but always willing to send a picture if asked. All I want is someone who wants me. ME. The real me! Is that such an unreasonable request?? I want someone to actually give of themselves, as I do. No holds barred. Actually feel something.

Anyway, you would think after 7600+ hits on my profile at least one would be real, not married and have actually emotions and some sort of future to share, and I am not even talking marriage. I am talking more than a one night, hi how are you type of thing.

If anyone can clarify this for me, please feel free. If you are, however going to be ugly to me, please refrain. I have had enough of that, so please don't waste my time and yours. However if you could provide some insight, please do.

Last comment. People. Have a heart. Think about other people's feelings before you do or say things. Don't lead them on, if you know the wants and needs are different than your own. Life is hard enough without that.

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