Do you women just delete or do you read?  

ParryPintsPurge 52M
19 posts
2/3/2006 8:33 am

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3/24/2006 8:48 am

Do you women just delete or do you read?

I was told that most of the women on this site just delete most of the messages they receive without reading them. Is that true? I know women receive alot more messages than the men do. Why is that? Is it truly the pursuer and the pursuee?

thisredhead 43M/43F
1 post
2/3/2006 9:50 am

i read, must be that curious that i have! love to know im wanted and like to recipicate!

blondebabyboo3 45F
74 posts
2/3/2006 9:56 am

We usually always read our emails. Promise.

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
2/3/2006 10:23 am

I read and then I delete. Why? A simple no thank you can spark a war with some idiot who thinks we're just playing hard to get. We get form letters, phone numbers, IM names, dick pics, simple hellos... None of these are going to get a response. Even the ones who are thoughtful, if there's no picture attached, or if the guy is married, attached, completely not what we're looking for, there is no reason to encourage someone. I've responded to email that simply compliments my profile with a thank you, only to get back something that says, "So when are we going to fuck?" Heh. Nice ploy. That means they didn't read a word of my profile.


2/3/2006 12:10 pm

we read and reply to all except for the dick pic's

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

rm_EveLWoman 57F
36 posts
2/3/2006 12:18 pm

when i get some...ill tell you

finewine033 66M
3 posts
2/4/2006 6:11 am

A couple of thoughts on this....

First, as womenlooking stated, there are far more men than ladies on here, and I am sure they get a lot of emails, and I can understand that they do not have time to respond to them all.

I also feel a big part of the problem is the lack of respect by a lot of the guys who do email the ladies. While a lot of the ladies are looking for sex, they are more concerned aobut the person the cock is attached to than just the cock itself. If the cock was all they were intersted in, they can buy a dildo or vibrator and not have to put up with the bs that comes with the pricks that some cocks are attached to.

Finally, you have to accept that just because you send a woman an email, she DOES NOT have a responsibility to you to reply. If you want replies, then first...READ THE PROFILE. Make your email text match what is in her profile. That might just spark her interst.

slidein2meplz 63F
1994 posts
2/4/2006 9:02 am

I read and delete. MissAnn is right, if you send back a polite reply you get bombarded with insults. Not always but enough to have it ruined for decent men who can handle a no thank you.

Most of us women find that a great deal of the men who have written, have not read our profiles, which is very frustrating and a time waster for them as well as for us.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

caressmewell 55F

2/8/2006 12:29 pm

I read most of mine...if there is a cock shot it gets deleted w/o being read.

BBWPeachGA 61F

2/5/2007 3:12 pm

I cast my vote with MissAnn and slidein2me. I get inundated with mail sometimes, and I do read every one. Sadly, the majority either have not read my profile or have read it and chosen to ignore what I clearly state that I want. I, too, have been blasted for simply saying, "No, thank you," so not responding at all seems a better choice.

I'm sorry, I know it causes problems for the minority of nice guys like you.

atlantagirl2004 59F
2 posts
2/13/2007 4:57 pm

I read most of them, respond if I am motivated to do so from the message, or delete them if I'm not. I do not read the ones from guys that are younger than my children; automatic file 13....LOL

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