Ok, so I have a question...  

rm_vneckgirl 58F
126 posts
3/26/2006 2:01 pm

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7/22/2006 6:12 pm

Ok, so I have a question...

Straight out question here... based totally on my experiences from a while ago (I wait to post anything like this so no one I may have met can directly associate it with themselves.)

Why is it that men tend to have a few drinks before meeting you at a agreed upon time, then proceed to have a few more while they are out with you, thereby becomming somewhat drunk?? You know whay I mean....slurring words, being sloppy in actions, forgetting things (like what they ordered for dinner and then being surprised at what is delivered to them! yes...for real!) OR - how about this one??? FARTING in front of you??? What are they thinking??? It's not like you know each other THAT intimately yet!!! OMG!

I don't understand it - wouldn't you want to make a "good" impression when you finally do get to meet?

Maybe it's just me, but it bugs the HELL out of me!

fndsinva 52M

3/26/2006 2:20 pm

It isn't just you. Maybe they are really nervous. REALLY REALLY nervous. But that is no excuse to act like a child or an imbecile. I know that if I met a woman for the first time, it would really bother me as well. But I know that it does happen. I think that would be a good sign they are NOT the person for you and the search continues....... Happy looking and don't worry, not all men are that way.

rm_remodman3 51M
128 posts
3/26/2006 2:31 pm

I don't understand it either.
I don't drink, I know what I'm doing at all times, and I only fart in front of my brothers, or guy friends.
But I had to laugh at your situation.
Liquid courage is liquid brains.
Just my 2 cents.

rm_vneckgirl replies on 3/26/2006 5:32 pm:
I never heard that before... liquid courage is liquid brains...makes sense, I totally agree with it!

49AK 56M
1823 posts
3/26/2006 3:05 pm

I have about one drink a month... usually a glass of white white with my linguini and clams, or a Singha with my thai food. So it is beyond my understanding why someone who is trying to make a good impression would consciously do something that he knows will detract from that.

If nerves is the excuse, do you really want to be seeing someone who chooses a martini as his mental health drug of choice?

rm_hippy6663 66M

3/26/2006 3:52 pm

The drinks are for their nervous Feeling. The Farting in front of you is just plain RUDE!

bunsarefun 57M
6 posts
3/26/2006 4:22 pm

No confidence,and no respect. Run fast and far.

docdirk 49M

3/26/2006 4:43 pm

You're meeting the wrong guys!!!

Many of us actually have manners. Really. I'm not lying!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

rm_vneckgirl replies on 3/26/2006 5:34 pm:
You're probably write...may need to take down my profile again and lay low for a while... I need a break!

rm_JoeyD1214 61M
398 posts
3/26/2006 5:32 pm

VNeck - you are definetly hooking up with the wrong guys! A drink for courage is one thing, but this guy is a loser! Set your standards higher!

rm_vneckgirl replies on 3/26/2006 6:23 pm:
I guess I am, but really, how do you know? Both said of themselves that they were "social drinkers". That's what I consider myself... 1 or 2 drinks and that's it.

zorgnot2 61M

3/27/2006 7:55 pm

When I was a child I thought like a child...

Tell him that you will not ever go out with someone who shows the disrespect for not only you but to himself by showing up drunk..EVER!

SexJuggernaut71 46M
34 posts
3/29/2006 3:58 pm

Unfortunately many guys stop maturing at age 18. Their entire existence is surrounded by the latest sports scores, drinking, farting, etc. many of them never change.

now just an opinion, many of your blogs are fantasies, which are great and well written, but many of these guys see a playboy article from it and think that they can just get you drunk or in bed because you are so sensual. so they let go and try to cover up their insecurity and immaturity by drinking - you know the standard band-aid for those who can't actually face the world.

i wouldn't excatly back away if i were you, i would refocus and question them more before you agree to meet them. make sure their favorite past time is not drinking for example. wine with a meal is one thing, but drowing yourself from reality is another. make sure you are more compatible from the start if you are looking for any sort of relationship out of them other than sex.

rm_vneckgirl replies on 3/29/2006 7:37 pm:
Very well stated and duly noted. Thank you for the time and effort you put into the answers. I see what you are saying about my fantasy postings. I never looked at it that way. Thanks again!

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