What is it with me?  

rm_tonyzm2 59M
25 posts
8/31/2006 1:29 pm

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What is it with me?

I chat to a large number of ladies in the london and uk chat rooms, I also email some who dont seem to chat. No matter what I do or say in either chat or mail, noone seems interested. I just cant seem to be able to chat them up like some on here, I dont have the gift of the gab. In chat if im talking to someone and someone else talks to them they seem to leave me sitting there all alone as they wander off to chat to this new more maybe interesting person. Maybe I'm just boring, I dont know. Maybe I cant spot if someone is interested in me without them actually saying so.
Something else the makes me fed up is when you get one of those predone replys to a mail, such as "I'm off men at the moment" and 10 mins later they are in the chat room after other men lol, Why cant people actually type a reply, even if its I'm sorry but I dont think you are my type but thanks for the mail.

michaela200 53F

9/1/2006 12:14 pm

Awwww Tony sorry your on a downer at the moment,life is shit at times,look's like me and u get the bad runt of it all the time,
But if u ever wanna chat or talk things out im here for yeah ,

a girl that loves her pussy being eaten

_madwolfuk01 43M

9/3/2006 4:18 pm

Whatcha mate, what can i say? Its not easy on here to get noticed, i must admit.

Ive finally managed it and got a few good friends from it, but its taken a long time, and couldnt really say even how i managed it to be fair.

Wouldnt say im the funniest kinda guy, the best looking or anything like that, ive just been myself and eventually its paid off.

Chat is the hardest place to make an impression, its allways busy, even i struggle keeping up with people i know now!

All i can say is be yourself, and keep at it, youll get there in the end mate, meanwhile youve got a few freinds here as well, chatting with your friends is noticed

sexyminx11 41F

9/6/2006 4:37 am

hi tony sorry bout your downer i fee like that some times and whaen some one said i was and not sexy i felt like shit but chin up mate i have spaek soon mate love kelly xxxxx

rm_hiandasmile 54F

9/6/2006 2:25 pm

sending you a large HUG and a warm smile tony just be you, stay true to yourself and you will find happyness xxx

rm_tonyzm2 59M
19 posts
9/26/2006 10:44 am

Well thanks for all the words of encouragement, I was beginning to think its all just me. I guess most of the single guys probably have the same problems due to the fact they outnumber the women on here. I'm still waiting for the light at the end of the tunnel to shine through, maybe it will come, maybe it wont.
I had a long conversation with my ex, last night and today, I still dont feel any better but I suppose deep down this is one of the reasons why Im just feel so crap at the moment. I still have deep feelings for her and am always thinking about her, my problem is she seems to have forgotten all about me in quite a short space of time. She seems to be only able to remember the bad times, not the 5 years we had of happiness before them. Maybe it is time to move on but the feelings are still there and will be for a while yet to come. Maybe Im looking for something more than this site will offer, I dont know. Anyway I will keep on trying find find what I am looking for on here and other sites, maybe I will find it.

kinkymel2 54F

9/28/2006 4:45 am

i feel sad reading this blog sometimes its best to move on and live a little no point in getting sad about past relationships is it arrrh but maybe you find an open one where you both can meet others aswell as each other i think open relationships are good as then you dont get too attached and if gose wrong than no one gets hurt hang in there

lucylou1958 59F

9/28/2006 7:41 am

aaawww Tony! i spect its what your expectations are with a site like this. if its just to have sex, it is difficult (not just for single men)but at least on here you have made and met some mates, male and female. i see you in the room as one of those nice chaps that you can have a chat and a joke with and who will always join in. having met you at a meet, i think your a lovely bloke and im sure you will meet a lovely lady who you can have a relationship with. till then, keep chatting in the room xxx

kinkymel2 54F

10/2/2006 12:38 am

thankyou for a wild time you are a true gentlaman and a tiger i have never been treated so well and with respect and love, i recommend you to any women as they would feel like a million dollers and loved the z3m car you are a good driver and fast too also thanks for a very good weekend hope we do it again and again yummmmmmmmmm xxx

rm_tonyzm2 59M
19 posts
10/3/2006 7:55 am

Well I think my faith has been restored, I was beginning to wonder if the way I prefer to treat ladies was the right way, It obviously is and has paid off. Ladies should be treated with respect and not as sex objects, conversation and no pressure to have sex will pay dividends in the end.

xxxlucky69xxx 51F
79 posts
10/24/2006 6:07 pm

aww tony....h8 2 think of u ona downer...we all av good days n bad days hun...n its real shit at times....thems the days 2 cum in2 chat a talk 2 ya friends....n if no1 hears ya the 1st time...SHOUT it....1 of us will b here n listen....

oopsadaisy4 51M/55F

10/29/2006 5:19 pm

theres always a light at the end of the tunnel Tony, you have a lot of friends in the room,i havent known you long but your one of the nice people that make my night when i see you in there and as lucky says SHOUT ...........keep your chin up and let people see you shining from the inside out and they will come running ..........big hugs to you flower xxx oops xxx

kinkymel22 54F
7 posts
4/2/2008 11:08 am

well hopefully now you have found the right women in me and you dont feel so down anymore i hope so as i think you are so special to me love you so much forever

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