We just want to play....  

rm_tkwswing 52M/51F
471 posts
3/23/2005 7:00 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

We just want to play....

You would think that with over 17 million horny people on this site, we'd be able to find a horny woman or couple to play with! We're outgoing, fun loving, and pretty much willing to try anything...once. It's extremely frustrating when you are ready to play and can't find a friend to play with...

Can someone please tell us why this is so hard to find?

5 posts
3/23/2005 9:27 am

Good question i have the same problem myself!!!!!

1 post
3/23/2005 10:14 am

i can only suppose at what the answer to your question is. it very well be that some are bolder in cyber space than in reality. i love to play in cyber space or in the real world, as suggested by my add. i too am interested in new and erotic experiences with lovely ladies such as yourself and would love to hear from one and all. i personally know how frustating it can be to find playmates. xoxox

SmallShakoRival 62M
88 posts
3/23/2005 12:10 pm

A significant percentage of the members on this site are living in a fantasy world. They feel safe in this web environment and somehow achieve contentment from it. They must not know what this site is for "The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site" All talk and no action!

"Ones' attitude greatly determines the outcome of any difficult task"

Apolybear 55M

3/23/2005 1:18 pm

I've discovered that you have to be proactive on this site to meet people. When I'm ready to look for someone, I'll get a silver membership for a month and contact those who interest me directly.

Unfortunately, this site is full of young geeks pretending to be women or couples. There's also people on this site who will string you out and never get around to a first meeting. Then, there are those who pretend to be women or couples so they can sell you something. Sad, but true.

Good luck

Scorpio4U57 64M/60F

3/23/2005 3:20 pm

Probably your location...where are you?

rm_bonesloven 42M
4 posts
3/23/2005 5:10 pm

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1 post
3/23/2005 5:38 pm

look inside its all there

DrFuyutsuki 36M/36F

3/23/2005 7:25 pm

I think a lot of people come on here not know what the want, or who for that matter. Some come in expecting to find mister/miss right. Others have such highexpectations noticing the "17 Mil" people and think the dont have to worry about it cause there is alway someone else.
I think in general our society as a whole has made sexual acts an exceptable taboo, meaning you can do it just don't talk about it, kind of like going to the bathroom.
My wife and I have gotten luck in someways, we have found to men who wanted to to get with her and fit her expectations and a couple for us both to enjoy. We have also tried to be flexable and not expect much of anything that way were are plesantly surprised when someone pops up.
Hope this helps,

rm_tkwswing 52M/51F
114 posts
3/24/2005 4:22 pm

Apolybear...you are right about that...lots of young geeks pretending to be couples. Lots of married men, showing as couples, but no info on their wives...hmmmm, can we say cheater? We've met one that the wife is always in bed, and had one last night where it was just the husband. What gives?

1 post
3/24/2005 9:37 pm

I find that one sites like this, there are made up accounts that are used to attract people, so sometimes when you think you are messaging a real person its really a bot. That makes me so mad.

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