rm_thewaywewere 42F
145 posts
9/10/2006 10:06 pm

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9/17/2006 7:46 am


In some members' profile, they left race for ppl to guess...i don't understand why the race so much bothered him and made him ashame to stand for his blood...

'is ur blood mixed with some aliens which makes u have to shut up?' 'or is there some animals gene in ur spine?' I know it's very not nice to ask say so, but when u leave prefer not to say, u leave the space for ppl to imagine to guess whatever running through their minds...

When choose 'prefer not say', u intend to deny ur race, where u r from and who give u the life, and u r ashamed being urself running such miserable bloody in ur corpse. In another words, u deny yourself.

Anyway, maybe another shallow thoughts here, but someone got to think and sustain what the life has been give to, cherish and be proud of it!!!


9/10/2006 10:42 pm

im white man proud of it.ive got no idea what or if any kind mix is in me.ive thought about tracing my family tree.

rm_thewaywewere 42F
85 posts
9/10/2006 10:54 pm

lol, remmeber to write back and tell me what u find out...
thanks for dropping by!!!

blastngoff 54M

9/12/2006 1:28 am

Not sure why folks would leave that out or be hesitant to state. I would think that of all things, race is something that you have a hard time "hiding." My only guess is that they don't want to "eliminate" themselves when others are searching since some do search based upon a particular race..but if this were the case then you would think that the "elimination" is going to occur later anyway.

happyladychat 49F
3740 posts
9/12/2006 2:19 am

This topic discussed within a group before. I recall 2 reasons given.... 1) to provide as little info as possible to keep identity discreet 2) left out that info by accident when creating the profile.

Anyway, it doesn't matter. For me, I hardly depend on a profile to know a person... I will eventually know him/her through prolonged interaction I guess.

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!

rm_thewaywewere 42F
85 posts
9/12/2006 3:51 am

blastngoff: it can't be hiden. They should know others have their right to choose which race they want to hang out with and by hiding they just waste others time. My point is why they can not just simply fill their race in their profile? What's wrong with them?

HLC: well, the two reasons are valid, but i don't think by telling their races disclose their identity, damn NO!; left out, the chance is very less in my view, just like some guys LEFT marital status out, geez, how could i forget i am chinese and i am single, GOD NO!!!

Generally, if the ppl who didn't fill in quite infomration in the profile about themselves, such as education level, race, height, they have quite low self-esteem.

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