Tennismaiden's Independence  

rm_tennismaiden 61F
2103 posts
7/4/2006 8:17 am

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Tennismaiden's Independence


I wanted to write a little blurb for all those wonderful friends in Blogland and AdultFriendFinder. Since today is Independence day I thought it only fitting for this declaration and as America broke away from the British I too must do some stretching and flexing.

I've been reading the book "Women Who Run with the Wolves" By C P Estes Phd. I was recommended to this particular lesson by someone who came into my life for a fleeting moment and though I was crazy about him, I was not his first choice. But with that crossing of paths he did pass along this literature which he claims "was written for me".

I'm just at the beginning chapters there are 475 pages in total and I have quite a bit to read. Today I'll be heading to the beach for R&R, a perfect time to whip out the thick paperback and continue learning my particular lesson.

My feeling is that everything is given to us at a special instant when we can best absorb that which we need to learn. I've had this book for months and been putting it off for sometime. I was angry for not being given the opportunity to share time with the gentleman that passed along the book, so picking it up and reading it was also not an easy task.

Synchronicity

I am preparing myself for the next step, my intuition tells me it's to do this somewhat alone at least for the next few weeks as I am due to spend time with family in New Hampshire.

I am flattered at all the attention lately but in all practicality I'm needing friends more than a lover. Would I love to be lavished with touch and sensuality? Absolutely! But I must let go of this notion before I self destruct. I cannot keep my dignity if I'm languishing in the past. The past has no future.

So....it's back into the "head" of Tennismaiden, doing some soul searching, breathing in summer air and picking up my Wilson to bang the crap out of a few harmless yellow balls.

Sounds like a plan.....right?

Happy 4th of July and Independence to all those who need freeing from their captors. I salute you!



free2chose2 67F

7/4/2006 10:04 am

Enjoy the holiday, catch up with your reading,"good things come, to those who wait"

Don't worry, be Happy


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/6/2006 5:52 pm:
Waiting waiting waiting...can I stop yet?

gjg1965 53M

7/4/2006 2:08 pm

Take care of yourself because if you don,t no one els will.happy 4th George


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/6/2006 5:53 pm:
Good advice George! I once had a very good Doctor taking care of me...but oh well I guess I'm not his patient anymore.

I shall indeed be my best caretaker thank you!

rm_mtnravyn 61M
890 posts
7/4/2006 5:21 pm

Emptiness has something to do with letting go, turning loose. We must "lay down our burdens, down by the riverside". We must risk turning loose the burden of our opinions, our knowledge, our rules of how things should be. Letting go of the burden of past and future, we enter the stream that flows through the open heart and the present moment


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/6/2006 5:55 pm:
Being present is consciousness taken for granted, easy to say...not easy to do. Will you remind me from time to time?

HeardLankaMalls 56M
2925 posts
7/5/2006 6:07 am

Hope you had a good read on the beach TM.

Our weather turned a bit bad at the picnic I attended. The typical summer thunderstorm came by with all associated thunder and lightning. But, the day was otherwise uneventful and ok.

Here it is Wednesday morning, and another t-storm is raining (pouring) down on north-central NJ (I'm at work). The thunder is even rocking the building. Hopefully the dryer weather that the weather persons on the news have been talking about will come about and we'll have a few nice and dry summer days.

It's a very good (and pretty) head you have TM. Just take things as they come. And let your exertions on the court relieve some stress. And hopefully you'll get some relaxation in NH also.
Hmmmm...if you start your trip on a weekday, and near the lunch hour, feel free to make a sidetrip down Rt 78 a couple of miles for lunch

Hugs, C


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/6/2006 5:57 pm:
I'm sorry sweetie my route will be taking me to Newport Rhode Island first and then I'll be heading over to NH. Otherwise I would have loved to come drop in on you....but then how would you explain who I am? Yikes...could get sticky!

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
7/6/2006 12:34 am

Enjoy yourself....and take time to find yourself...I know that lady is in there somewhere...

Good luck in breaking the shackles of your past...

NG61...slipping back into the darkness...


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/6/2006 6:02 pm:
Truth be told NG I might want tot ry some shackles with the right Dom...but until such time I will spend it wisely. {=}

SacredStarDance

7/6/2006 3:38 am

Have a wonderful time..we all need time just for ourselves

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/6/2006 6:04 pm:
Hey Gurl...how's your garden growing? Good to see you and might I say you're looking great!

Hope all is well...I shall mosey on over to read what's up in your camp ASAP!

wickedeasy 68F  
31350 posts
7/6/2006 11:12 am

sounds like a plan

know yourself and others will know you

thank you for this - it struck a chord

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/6/2006 7:30 pm:
Now try telling that to my mojo which is ready to jump the next guy that steps in front of me!

I do hope you feel better soon...can't imagine the frustration and pain...you are in my thoughts.

DIVISION77 41M
8337 posts
7/6/2006 2:36 pm

I did sense a feeling of exasperation in your recent posts.

You were living in the past, and still horny as well.

A sense of stagnation and regret over lost experiences.

All things in time, tennismaiden.

In time.

DIV

"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/6/2006 7:34 pm:
Yes Div I know...I'm breathing deeply and staying calm....for now.

TheRealThing655 49F
9558 posts
7/6/2006 5:13 pm

Very nice post...happy belated 4th to you my friend!


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/6/2006 7:35 pm:
Hope your 4th was indeed a fireworks of celebration on your new found Independence! We shall prevail!

HeardLankaMalls 56M
2925 posts
7/7/2006 4:44 am

Explainations can alwys be made TM (it is only work you know; friend from college; old work associate; etc)

Early wishes for a safe, relaxing, and enjoyable trip!!

Hugs & kisses, C


rm_tennismaiden replies on 7/8/2006 7:12 am:
Thanks Cor, I'll try and keep the "safe" part in mind. But you know me...if I can live a little on the edge so much the better!

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