sexuality.................does it need a label  

rm_sylva_gaia 31F
19 posts
6/2/2006 6:53 am

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sexuality.................does it need a label


Back at sixth form all the girls were 'bi' and i never felt putting that label on me, mainly because i have a type in guys but women i dont have a definitive type its more of a spark maybe a soul thing if thats not too deep. Anyway as i found out none of these girls were bi really one of them chased me for ages and me not wanting to ruin a friendship refused eventually i thought friendship is a great basis for a relationship so why hold back out of fear, every time i went to to do anything more than kiss she'd flinch and move away and i guess being bi-sexual is a great label to interest the guys and thats what they all thought.
Iv never done anything more than kiss and some breast licking nibbling but i do want to explore this, most people who are 'bi' want 3somes with their partners but dont want anything really and lesbians tend not to like bi people for this reason.
I hope im not rambling here too much iv never written a blog before, basically i would really like to meet a woman i could experiment with - i have a horrible fear of being bad though linked to the first guy i slept with he told everyone i was crap his past gfs all agreed with me that he was bad but it still really knocked my confidence.
and i guess im still in pursuit of the illustrious orgasm

im_your_man77 40M
961 posts
6/2/2006 7:48 am

A lot of people are quick to talk he talk but actions speak louder than words. With sexuality you need to be honest with yourself regarding what is right behaviour for you. Only with honesty will you be comfortable with your experiences, with paitence you can learn to explore what ever you want to try.


monkeyboy818 38M

6/2/2006 7:51 am

Don't worry about what the guy said, if we are all honest we are all shit the first time (hope Im right or I look a right twat)It's all about learning what you like yourself and learning what he other person likes second (Im not selfish, honest) go find that big O

P.s Men can give you that big as well..


angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
6/2/2006 12:51 pm

Welcome to the blogs! Don't fool yourself into thinking that men are responsible for your orgasm. You are responsible for finding out what pleasures you and then teaching the man in your life how to go about it.


rm_smilingjax 83M  
41 posts
11/27/2006 6:42 pm

    Quoting angelofmercy5:
    Welcome to the blogs! Don't fool yourself into thinking that men are responsible for your orgasm. You are responsible for finding out what pleasures you and then teaching the man in your life how to go about it.
Maybe I'll find out this summer?


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