What the Fuck The world is not in sync  

rm_sxfntsy1 57M
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9/3/2006 1:23 am

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9/21/2006 3:44 pm

What the Fuck The world is not in sync

I have a hard t im understanding what the hell is going on in peoples relationships...A lady I met on AdultFriendFinder and I have a great relationship.She is attentive to my needs and desires beyond belief. the problem is she is totally comitted to her husband who could give a shit about her needs and desires.What the fuck is wrong with people ? Why don't we get along ? I would kill for a woman who was into having a physical relationship as well as being friends. Why does it seem that people can love each other but not like each other or be attracted to each other physically.My wife could care less about sex. No matter how much we try to get along sexually , things never seem to work out. I am as romantic as a person could be but nothing seems to get her attention. We are on our way out,by mutual agreement . Thats sad because we used to be great friends and lovers.I guess peoples priorities in life change , but I know that I need a complete relationship ,emotional and physical.When a man or woman comes on to his or her partner , how or why do they shun the advances? There are so many people out there who desire the attention of the opposite sex , why do we not get hooked up with the right person? All I ever wanted was to grow old with the one I married , but it just isn't in the cards. What happens to us to make us not need or desire the company of our mate?I wish I knew the answer. All I want and need is a partner who will let me be their best friend and lover. Why can't things be that simple? If anyone has the answer, please help me out here. I'm tired of chasing a dream if it"s not attainable. I love the love of a woman and I know there are women uot there who need the love, affection, and friendship of a man. What are we so afraid of? Why can't we just let ourselves go with one another? Why all the games ? Who or what are we trying to protect?

DiscreetDelights 51F

9/3/2006 2:24 am

Great post. Let me ponder your questions - I'll be back...

- DT

rm_sxfntsy1 replies on 9/21/2006 3:30 pm:
Haven't heard from you lately...Have you found any answers?

Breathelessbimbo 50F

9/3/2006 2:34 am

You & i have the same dreams hun.

All I ever wanted was to grow old with the one I married ,

As we mature in age our needs & desires are often different to our partners.

Its sad you are ending this but at the same time view it as a chance to restart into pastures new.

Best of luck.

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