rm_swt16nomore 68F
13 posts
5/22/2006 10:48 am

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2/26/2007 3:59 pm


I have a question to all but very interested how women deal with this type thing.Sometimes while on IMC I am paged with crude and/or rude come ons. When I decline, I leave myself open to more insults and rude comments. A few times I have even had them sit on IMC paging me for 10-15-20 minutes at a time. Am I required to answer and say I am not interested...especially when the salutation is rude/crude or is it ok to just decline?

bigdaddie2955 63M

5/22/2006 3:34 pm

Any man that makes rude comments to any woman whether wanted or not,should be ignored! No IM on any web site has any rules that state that you HAVE to Im with them.Pardon my "french" here,but they are assholes,and should be treated as such.Just my way of thinking tho,you make up your own mind though,,,,,

rm_t0nguetied69 46M
8 posts
5/22/2006 7:07 pm

It is a shame but it happens quite a bit. You should read this ladies Blog and see what is going on out there rdy2try4

Sorry for the problems. Not all men are that way.

Good luck and be safe

rm_swt16nomore 68F

5/22/2006 8:13 pm

I truly thank you for your isn't that i believe that all men are like that but at my age i am shocked at the ones who are...i thought we were raised with more class and dignity not to mention manners back then

stay safe and have fun

RoamingPaul 64M

6/3/2006 7:10 pm

Rude and crude is lame-that's all there is to that. ignore them and let them attract the skank-ho's they deserve.

love_2_tongue 45M
11 posts
6/24/2006 4:00 pm

You should not be treated that way. If that does happen you can always report them for abuse

its not something that should happen and you're never having to say anything to anyone if you do not choose to do so. They should respect that

rm_swt16nomore 68F

6/25/2006 9:45 am

Thank you!!!!!!

hereim4unow 67F

6/26/2006 12:06 am

You know what??? Screw them!!!! No guy is worth bothering with if he he is going to come on to you or anyone like that. Just shows his lack of class and selfrespect. In fact, I am finding most are like that these days and who needs that? Ignore them and delete quickly. Mybe they will get the message but most aren't that smart anyway. Good luck.

rm_easygo522 65M

11/30/2006 4:28 pm

I am a man of course looking for sex on this site, but if I treated you rudely I would expect you not to answer. Rudeness should be ignored, and not tolerated. One other thought, what kind of brain do these people have that they cannot figure out that you are not going to answer after two or three minutes let alone ten or fifteen minutes. Ignore the rude people and filter through to find the good. Luv 2 tongue is right not only you but no one deserves to be treated like that. Perhaps reporting them is the answer.

Good luck, Easy

rm_swt16nomore 68F

12/9/2006 5:03 am

Sad to say...even with this blog it is still happening.....i continue to ignore and continue to reveive smart remarks ....oh well such is life with the ignorant i guess.

rm_pazazzzz64 54M/53F

1/1/2007 9:18 am

I am sorry to here your not getting good messages for people IMC. I decline then and if they continue I click ignore so that they may not continue. Hope life get better for you on here.


rm_awol07 69M
1 post
1/22/2007 7:23 pm

Ignore is very powerful - so use it. But do us ALL a favor and report the rotten ones who make us all look bad. It is abusive.

DVSplzr69 53M

2/26/2007 9:23 am

I'm truly sorry to hear that you are having this type of reaction. Even though this may be a site for "sex", that shouldn't give anyone free reign to be insulting and abusive. Believe it or not, there are some of us men who still believe in chivalry and aren't complete pigs.
Ignore and report the abusers and allow the gentlemen a chance to respond. You might be pleasantly surprised.

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