how's your luck been?  

rm_swansong25 35M
18 posts
7/28/2006 8:56 pm

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8/15/2006 7:43 pm

how's your luck been?

So just out fo curiosity i'd like to know how everyone's luck with this site has been. It's my understanding that real guys far outnumber the real girls. I don't know how much spam/fake responses i've received. so tell me your luck with the site be honest and truthful. Whether your trying to find a date, a one night, 3 some, orgy, whatever. Me all i'm trying to find is a partner for dating or even just hanging out. Of course i'll settle for other things j/k.

Come on guys/gals let me know your luck.

curvymeli 40F

8/6/2006 11:37 pm

Hm, I stopped by bc you look familiar. I lived in Charlotte for a year but you are too much younger than me I think for the dim chance we may have met.

As for luck, I've had a good amount. Now I'm no mathpert (I wanted that to sound as good as sexpert, but it just doesn't, does it??) but I have had a bunch of great dates, a couple of semi-relationships, made some friends (nearby and across the pond), and gotten into a blogging community. Works for me!

Now, I haven't gotten a lot of sex out of it. More like very very close to none. Not that I'm complaining bc there are lots of ways to get off without having intercourse, so if you consider that kind of messing around sex then I HAVE had it.

Granted, part of that is bc I don't hop into sex with every guy I go on a couple of dates with (even though we met on a sex site). Part of it is just bad timing. Part of it is bad chemistry. Part of it is the individual man's issues....and I think all of the reasoning just about evens out across the board.

Ummm, as for tips for're a gold member, so send out loads and loads of winks and emails. Really get your money's worth. Even for a standard member chick like me it's a numbers game, bc we get tons of dickheads writing to us with the occasional not sleezy guy peppered in. The emails ought to be personal sounding, like you read their profile and were actually interested in it and want to know more.

You'll be getting into contact with less fakes if you pay attention on their profile to whether or not they have a blog, belong to any groups, or are active in any parts of the magazine. If they do that stuff they are very likely real and might even be more sincere than someone who is not that involved in the various aspects of the site. I know there are a lot of real members that don't do any of this but I think the ones that do are more interesting anyways

Add some different pics. They don't have to show your junk and you don't have to show skin (but it helps, even for us women, bc a lot won't admit it but we love eye candy), but show yourself doing something you enjoy, like hiking or playing an instrument or whatever it is. And add something really personal to the bit you say about yourself in your profile (it's not too long), if you don't know what ask a friend what something is that stands out about you.

Wish you all the luck I have had and more!

curvymeli 40F

8/6/2006 11:38 pm

PS Go ahead and answer the rest of those additional questions, too. It's a bit of a pain in the ass, but worth it if that's what someone's looking for that you're interested in.

crazygurl2xx 58F

8/7/2006 5:40 pm

i met my lover here a year ago and other men too (some good some not-so-much) until we decided to stay exclusive. we have had no luck in meeting single women for 3somes at all but oh, well...

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