she did it again  

rm_starbowler2 53M
49 posts
2/15/2006 10:31 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

she did it again

What the hell is wrong with some people?? My "girlfriend" from mississippi has ask me for money yet again,after I told her no the first two times!!! This time it was over the phone,I told her that I have had it with her and told her it was "over" between us.I am annoyed as hell at her.......I've looked at my picture and no where on it do I see "sucker" . Sigh.......I think I'll just be a monk for the rest of my life.

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
2/20/2006 10:41 am

Don't give up sweetie...

She's one bad apple among better women. Believe that. Just stick to your guns. You might consider changing your phone number. Ya...I know it's a drag...but sounds like it might be a good idea.



rm_starbowler2 53M

2/21/2006 12:14 am

yeah "kiss", I think you are right.I am getting depressed though.....its hard to be "plain" and overweight in this world,seems like everyone is looking for that purfect person......the outside though.But thanks

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
2/22/2006 9:13 am

ok star...

If you insist on wallowing in your depression...that's your decision. However...I want to remind you of the universal truth...that you are what you think. If you decide you are "plain" then you are. If you focus on your a negative way...then that's what you will project to others. Beauty...whether you want to agree with me our not...shines from inside out...not the other way around. I'd like you to read my post COLOR BREATHING...begin to change your "programming". The things you say here are other people's opinions...which you have taken onto yourself. Why let others dictate who and what you are. You can change your outward appearance by changing how you think! Does it take work? YES Does it take time? Yes.

You have to answer this next question. Do you think you're worth the effort?


SpaceRangerNJ 56M
4687 posts
2/22/2006 9:58 am

First, congrats on Number 12!
Don't give up.

As [blog Kissmystuff] said, one bad apple don't spoil the whole bunch...". Oh, was that Michael Jackson?

Why is it that we are always more critical of ourselves than we are of others? Just think about your own perspective on what you would or would not accept physically in a woman. Now think about that woman who is a little overweight; not model perfect. They are probably thinking exactly the same thing about themselves as you do about yourself. So, I don't think everyone is looking for perfect.
Also, observe the couples you see. It's all a mix. Fat, skinny, tall, short, you name it. On this site I'm sure many women are looking for their fantasy lover: Hot, muscular, big cock, etc. And they can get it. It's the phase they are going through. So to those, we are probably lost. And it's not what you and I are looking for anyway. But there are others that are looking for something a little more meaningful. And they come in all shapes and sizes. One day we will find them. And then we will never remember when we were without. The mind is great that way.
Cheer up mate!
And OK, I'll try to go bowling again soon.

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