What is sexy?  

rm_snatch9208 60F
30 posts
8/11/2006 10:03 pm

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9/1/2007 1:58 pm

What is sexy?

Alot of you are probably wondering why I don't blog very much, well I have so much to say but never know the right words to say it all. So here goes nothing.. I have just wonder what guys find sexy. Is it the slim body,the nice perky breast, the long hair, the length of a womans legs, what skimpy clothes she wears or is it the personality? I personally don't find myself sexy! I think it has to come from inside yourself. If you like yourself or not. I have been trying to do a overhaul job on myself because my self asteem is not there. I am not a barbie doll and never will be. I think I have come along ways but still have a long way to go. I think losing weight has been my key to it all but still got a ways to go. So I just wanted to know what guys think is sexy?
So help me out and let me know your true meaning of the word "sexy". Thanks! Snatch

rm_sandpoint_10 60M
2 posts
8/12/2006 6:57 am

What indeed is sexy? For me it has changed over time. Yes at twenty something thin was in. Breasts have never been a focus for me. Natural is important;Little or no makeup,soap and shampoo can excite me as much as Channel#5 ever did.Truth excites me,as Keb Mo says you don't have to shave your legs for me. You just need to be yourself. By my forties I didn't want youth anymore. I found I like your laugh lines, that grey in your hair, the beautiful affect of gravity on your breasts,the rounded thigh.Don't be afraid to look into my soul as I expect to look into yours.Your mind is attractive, your spirit, you compassion, your outlook on life.That smile that you have when you walk into a room and see me.There is beauty in all of us;Believe in your inner beauty.

JuicyBBW1001 56F

8/30/2006 9:18 pm

Well I am not a guy but Sexy is all about attitude. Everyone is sexy in their own way. Some more so then others. But I know that when you feel better about yourself then the sexy sneaks out and even when you don't really think your sexy someone else will find you that way. Does that make sense??


SirMounts 103M

12/8/2006 1:06 am

I believe that it is the result of a great many factors ~ including some that are subliminal, and therefore impossible to completely define. But the chemestry that results, is very plain to see.
Good question and I like your blog, snatch. *smiling*

intheroom69 67M

8/8/2007 9:45 am

You have a real valid question and I like Sandpoint 10 have changed my whole idea. It is like going to Hooters and those young women can not even carry on a intelligent coversation. The mind can be a very sensual part of the body. I have taken out a few of those "High maintanence ladies" and "trophy wifes" and there is always something missing. A woman who flirts is sexy even if she is not a 10. A woman who you know knows what she wants and want she will do is very sensual. A sexy smile is so important to me. And of course a good sense of humor is a turn on to me. I am a jolly jokester - so I love to laugh and have a good time. Breast size can be an attention getter but I have enjoyed many sizes and have not ruled out any size yet lol.
So Snatch what hollywook and glamour magazines profess is not necessarily what this man is looking for. Being with a woman is a total experience of the mind and body. Laying afterwards and talking and laughing even is a great stimulate for the next time.
You seem like a great lady and good luck to you and I would love to have a good laugh with you both before and after. lol

Midctbeachlover 57M
456 posts
2/3/2009 5:56 pm

There's so many blogs out there and franky, I'm not sure why this one, at this time. But the question has be pretty stoked and ranks up there with what's the meaning of life. Here's a little of my blog that touches on it. Stunning

I will obviously answer this as a guy who is about your age. One of the most important things that a guy is looking for is attention. Not the center of attention, type of attention. But the "you are important" type. I would like to think that there is something in the heart, but it is all in the head, meaning different parts of the brain. And being the brain, it requires stimulation. I come from the 60/70 era, way before women were thin like pretzels. I like them curvy, soft, intelligent and funny.

More importantly, the whole package is important. Starting at the top, hair is nice, especially a woman who takes care of it, keeps in long(er) and likes it touched. Face: we all get some lines, and on a woman, they can be beautiful, especially when they are caused by smiling, a lot. She needs to be comfortable with herself. Pleasing to the eye is very important, and speaking of eyes, they truly are the window to the soul. Thinking out loud...if the way to tell if a fish is fresh is to look for clear eyes and clean smell. Why shouldn;t that work for women? Alright, that's a tangent.

In any case, I like a nice neck, one that asks to be kissed, and leads to some sexy cleavage. A woman with some extra curves can be sexy, but much of it is upstairs and needs to act that way. Not to everyone of course, because that's a cheerleader type, and they don't really exist. Dressing well is nice. Not dressing up (although that is good at times), but wearing clothes that represent her personal style.

Legs: You brought this up, and they are nice. So Snatch, I could go on and on about being sexy, but want to end with a couple of notes.
1)You don't find yourself sexy, but do you ever get up in the morning and look in the mirror and think that you are at least OK?
2) Forget the overhaul. If self esteem is an issue it doesn't matter how you look, you won't like it. And, BTW, you will likely be reading this and think that either I am blowing sunshine up your skirt or blocking me thinking I'm a raving lunatic.
3)Sexy is like a hot little secret. You and the person who sees you that way are in on it. Everyone else isn't. The more you feel it, the more others will to.

...and looking at your other posts, Hope the wedding went well, the Jager is cold and your hair is beautiful...like you

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