The Point of No Return  

rm_shortsweet98 37F
55 posts
6/26/2005 11:17 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The Point of No Return

I've made the decision to end it with my boyfriend. I feel the best time to tell him is after his daughter goes back home from visiting him; I don't want to dump this on him now. The thing is, he's a pretty good guy: he's smart, he can be funny at times, he's a great father based on what I can see. But as far as us being's just not working. I'm tired of feeling like the only one working at this relationship. I hope he'll understand and still want to be friends (if that's even likely). After this I know I won't be up for anything serious for a while. I'm just so tired of feeling like I'm missing something in a relationship.

Moebius1970 47M  
50 posts
6/27/2005 8:55 am

Based on the things you have said, you are making the right decision. Relationships are about getting what you need, whatever that may be. If the other person is not giving what you need and they are getting what he/she needs, then it is not a good realtionship. Best of luck to you!

AltumHunksUnite 54M

6/28/2005 8:36 pm

It's never easy doing stuff like this, but sometimes it needs to be done.

As for post-relationship friends... that might take a little longer, if it happens at all.

Good luck.

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rm_shortsweet98 37F
34 posts
7/14/2005 12:31 am

To Moebius and Cleavis......thanks for the support.

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