Single Mothers  

rm_shadow19266 40M
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2/27/2006 8:47 pm

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Single Mothers

I've met a lot of single mothers in my time for some reason. I don't know why it is but I just do. It amazes me how many women are single mothers and at such young ages. I understand them but there are so many different circumstances surrounding them that it's mind boggleing. Why are the men gone i ask myself? Is it the women or the men being assholes and not wanting the responsibility? I do believe it is the men 95% of the time. To all the fucking deadbeat dads out there, I wish you a life of hell. How they can continue to use and abuse women and then dump them by the wayside is sickening. I've known a few men to do that and no longer are my friends thankfully. I go out and see people and how they act sometimes and now have a better understanding of men. Most are asses but there are some good ones out there. I'm sure of it. The women will find them hopefully and have a happy life. Women and their children have a bond that can't be broken and the love of their child is so amazing. They work their asses off at work all day while some try to do schooling along with work and then have to come home and take care of their child(ren) and I'm just llike wow.

They never stop amazing me on the amount of energy that women have. Alwasy going non stop but some how find a way to get out and relax too. Well to all the people who think it is the mother's fault that she is single you are most likely wrong. Not everybody knows all the situations that women are in with the man that they are with. It annoys me to think that people are so thick headed to jump to conclusions about these women. Try talking and seeing why they are single mothers. Get some insight. Women are delicate and fragile, but yet strong and self impowered and will always have the love for and of their child(ren). So to all the single mothers out there rock on and keep on being strong and yourselves. Yall make the world better.

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2/27/2006 11:55 pm

well all I can say is thank you shadow! have written a very good post...I am your typical struggling single one to turn to...dealing with kids and their problems alone, along with trying to deal with my own, it does get rough! There's times I want to jump in my car and just leave! But naturally the deep love I have for my kids makes me best thing someone can do is totally focus on the kids....forget the deadbeat, it's so much his loss!
I will never, ever, ever understand how a person can just walk away from a lifetime of joy their own kids..there's no justifacation!
And the void in the child's life is shattering....although in the end usually makes them a stronger adult after robbing their childhood. I even get judged for being a single parent...some will say well you put yourself in this situation right? Yes I did it all alone...isn't that just amazing? Well I tell you one thing...while maintaining my womanness...soft, sexy, warm, kind, has given me the strength and courage stand up for what's right, never take the crap of another, and taught me I don't need anyone but myself! all in all..good things come to those who weather thru the storm! thanks for letting me vent!


blpwolf 59F

3/3/2006 6:43 pm

U rock shadow...I raised my daughter alone for 17 years and she now has three beautiful children of her own and has a wonderful man..she never saw me cry, she never knew til she was grown how I struggled, to work 3 jobs, take care of her and myself. Shadow, u r an insightful gentle soul who deserves all of our prayers and well wishes...u r the MAN!!!!

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