Good News for Me  

rm_sexxikritter 53F
888 posts
8/29/2006 8:45 pm

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Good News for Me

Before I share my news, I have to tell you about what my son said to me tonight. I had tucked him into bed and we were talking about his first day of school. He was smiling so big because he really likes his class and his teacher. I turned out the light and logged onto here, started reading my watched list. A few minutes goes by and I hear him coming out of his room. He comes into mine and tells me that he needed one more hug. As he’s hugging me, he asks me if I love him. I tell him of course I do, I tell him that all the time. Then he asks if I love him more than my friends, so I say, I sure do, a whole bunches more. He replied “That’s cause I’m your special one, aren’t I, momma?” Just made my heart melt, he sure is my Special One!

I haven’t written a lot about my personal affairs in my blog. I’ve made comments here and there and asked for some advice and got back wonderful encouragement. Thank you all so much. I guess I should start at the beginning.

A few months ago, I met a super guy through this site. He lives a few hundred miles from me but has a cottage here in my town. We really clicked, right from the first phone conversation. Of course, I had read his profile and I saw that he wasn’t looking for a wife and maybe not even a long term commitment, but I thought he would change his mind after we got to know each other a bit more.-I know, I know. Us women always thinking we can change men - We established a very strong friendship and when we became lovers, it was even better. I continued to be in contact with other men from this site and looked forward to meeting them also.

Enter a man from a vanilla dating site for BBWs, my musician. Another strong click. He’s sweet and genuine. We can sit and talk about anything, I’m so comfortable with him. He told me straight up that he was a one woman man and I let him know that I was dating someone else too and had no plans to stop. I also told him about this site and that I planned to meet other men from here. It wasn’t for him but he understood that this is what I wanted to do at this point in my life. We, too, became lovers and the thought of polyamory started looking like something I might want to explore. My feelings were growing stronger for both of these wonderful men.

My musician and I have been spending a lot of time together recently and I started feeling really bad because I knew he wanted us to be exclusive but the first guy was still in the picture. I was worried that our friendship would suffer if we were no longer lovers and I cherish him and that friendship. That’s when I asked here if you all thought it was possible to sustain a friendship when sex was no longer involved. The advice was great and I had a long discussion with my friend downstate. We decided that we could and would continue to be friends but not lovers. We both care about each other very much but he can’t give me what I need and I’m not willing to be his part-time lover.

So, where does that leave me and my musician?
This is what my face looks like every time I think about him and believe me, that’s all the time. Doesn’t that just make ya tickled pink for me?

This man makes me feel so damn sexy, so desirable, like the best thing since sliced bread. I love that he is supportive of my volunteer work. I love that he asks about my son. I love that we can sit and watch TV, hold hands and just be quiet. I love that we have many things in common. I love that our conversations are a give and take. He’s quiet by nature and I sure ain’t, it’s a perfect balance. I love that he spoils me by cooking breakfast for me every time I spend the night. I love that he gives a great foot rub. And the fact that he plays the trumpet doesn’t hurt any either.

I have decided to date only him, to open my mind and open my heart more to the possibilities ahead. Yes, folks, I am going to be entering the ranks of the “I’m only here to blog” group. (As soon as I get a bit of time to change my profile.)
We will be spending Saturday together at a Battle of the Bands in the same park where we had our first date. I’m going to take him back to the river to the observation deck and tell him that if he still wants me, that I want him too...only him.


MarcySullivan 53F
3598 posts
8/29/2006 9:12 pm

Wow Kritter.. congratz on that!!! I'm very happy for you!!!

I'm glad you're staying for the blog still though!!!



Visit my group Analsex lovers and my blog Marcy's world!!

rm_babyboomer26 67M
898 posts
8/29/2006 10:41 pm

Does this leave Omar out in the cold?

Kritter, I'm happy for you and hope this is all you hope for.


Cozy_Red 51F

8/30/2006 2:14 am

Kritter, thats great, I hope it goes well.

My 3yr old granddaughter yesterday told me I was her best frend... kids are such blessings.

digdug41 50M

8/30/2006 8:18 am

hey kritter good for you doll we all need some semblance of happiness in our lives I'm glad that you found your enjoy

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cbron2 75M

8/30/2006 9:07 am

I'm happy for you,Kritter...He's a very lucky guy!!!!!! damn, first MzHuny...and now you...What's a guy to do..all you lovely ladies are falling in love.....oh least we can still be friends.HUH? of luck...have a wonderful day!!!

rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
8/30/2006 9:18 am

Thanks for your kind words everyone! This damn smile won't leave my face. People are gonna think I'm up to something!


rm_titsandtires 52M/42F
3656 posts
8/30/2006 9:20 am

like ineedit said, you wrote that very well, which indicates to me that you are very focused about what you want and where you're at in this situation. good for you. i enjoy success stories so much!


JuicyBBW1001 55F

8/30/2006 5:51 pm

Woohoo Kritter good for you. I guess that means your not gonna be voting on the sexy ass contest uh?? Just kidding I suppose it is alright to look at the menu as long as you don't pick from it. But good luck with your new beau I hope it works out for you.


SirMounts 103M

8/30/2006 5:56 pm

Why, everyone handled the situation with great understanding, sensitivity, and caring. It just goes to show that when you do things right, things are more likely to become... very right.
I can feel your happiness, and I'm happy for you, kritter. *smiling warmly*

rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
8/30/2006 6:08 pm

~I really hope this story does have a happy ending, T & T.
~I sure will be voting, Juicy. I can STILL appreciate a fine ass when I see one. But I still think his is the bestest!
~Thank you, Sir. *smiling like a school girl*

warmandsexy52 65M
13164 posts
8/31/2006 2:24 am

Sounds really wonderful and I am truly happy for you.

Hoping Saturday is brilliant!

warm xx

rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
8/31/2006 10:26 am

Thank you Spunky and Warm. Even when I'm feeling down, which isn't very often, I just think of him and my mood lifts...right up to the sky!

BlackHeatLust 48M

9/2/2006 12:17 pm

Congratulations my friend. If you ever need to talk to me you alrady have my email and number.

rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
9/3/2006 2:55 pm

I'll post a blog tonight about what happened on saturday. Thank you Fly, G, and KK!

free2chose2 67F

9/9/2006 11:07 am

Am I late or what? Congratulations--wish I could post the same

Don't worry, be Happy

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