Dilemma  

rm_seal_2404 37M
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4/11/2006 10:01 pm

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4/22/2007 7:43 pm

Dilemma


So, those of you that have checked me out know that I am married (happily might I add).
About 12 months ago I had a bit of a thing with this girl I met......well it was more than a bit of a thing, it actually got quite intense.
It all ended because she got guilty and told her boyfriend what was going on....which I dont blame her for at all. After all was said and done we remained friends are still see each other at uni quite regularly.
After she had ended it and we had gone back to being friends she told me that she regreted telling her boyfriend and made several indications that she wanted to revisit what we had. I was apprehensive at the time because if she got the guilts again my wife would undoubtably find out. I wont deny that I wanted to continue and we both found it very difficult to resist the urge.
Since then we went on christmas break and went a long time without seeing each other. In the past few months our relationship has changed. I find myself still atracted to her, but she seems to have changed her perception of me and is shutting me out. Is it possible for her to have turned her feelings off, if so how do I do that?We used to have a very easy going friendship were we could say anything to each other but now its gone all formal.
I still have really stong feelings for her and I am pretty sure she still does for me but she is trying to supress them.

Is our friendship a sinking ship?

or

can I real it back in?

Thoughts........

_RoSe_ 48F
994 posts
7/24/2006 12:56 am

Sometimes its time to let things go. I can't say, but maybe its time to move on.

"A life without passion is not a life; it is merely an existence."
~Rose~


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