How many AFF members have you met that were really serious about meeting?  

rm_sailorcraig2 64M
25 posts
5/9/2005 12:34 pm

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How many AFF members have you met that were really serious about meeting?

I have been a member of AdultFriendFinder for several months now and there seem to be many more folks who are all talk!! What has everyone else's experiences been.

ufeelmetill 40F

5/9/2005 12:57 pm

Well you should read my blogs cuz i am in a relationship now with a man i met on AdultFriendFinder and i was haveing fun fucking b4 that with individuals i met from AdultFriendFinder. I have had a good time

PussyEater7421 63M
51 posts
5/9/2005 1:15 pm

It's true. I joined the site in an effort to find a local woman that could keep up with me orally. Most women join this site out of boredom, to be able to chat with or flirt with guys, with little or no intention of meeting someone. If I'm wrong ladies....sorry, but that is the impression you are giving us guys.

wnt2likk_u 46M
3 posts
5/9/2005 1:23 pm

I agree totally. That's one of the things preventing me from sending any money. Lots of talk, and no action. In my area, I'll see a thread in the forums about 'lets get together' and it will go for months with nothing happening. Really, the only useable advice I've come across in here is that if ya wanna meet like this, ya gotta go to a swingers club, where you know first-hand that the people inside are there for the same reason you are. AdultFriendFinder is fine for a lot of 'sex-talk', but let's face it - us guys want to get laid, and my guess is that 98% of the women on here are here for attention. Just my two cents - anyone else? Please feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.

patsam69 52M/52F

5/9/2005 1:29 pm

I have met 4 REAL men from this site. and 4 turned out to be all talk! LOL....I guess everything has a balance. Just pisses me off when people waste my precious time.

kissablemeinmn 49F

5/9/2005 1:49 pm

Well I've only been here a little more than a week, but I am having coffee tomorrow with a man. We shall see! But in general, I have found that the thrill of the idea is more exciting to many than the actual meeting of someone.

Did you know that sexual promiscuity (sp?) is a sign of bi polar disease? So could be that in one of their manic phases they signed up here....

One never knows. But be patient! It may happen yet


adventurer748 69M

5/9/2005 1:56 pm

Your right, there seems to be a lot of all yack no shack!

looking469ru2 43M  
12 posts
5/9/2005 2:23 pm

It's mostly talkers. I've met one so that was worth $20 for a month. But mostly it acts as a release for some people's fantasies or people pushing pay sites. Plus the ratio of guys to girls is really high so for every woman that is real, there's like 30 guys or more messaging her.

discreetGuy4Fs 48M

5/9/2005 2:39 pm

I agree totally with the posts here. You just don't seem to get anywhere at all. Hey, isn't AdultFriendFinder supposedly for people who want to have adult fun? Then why are all these people even creating accounts here, if that's not what they are really after? I hope I DO meet someone who really does want to just have sex.

007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
5/9/2005 5:16 pm

I have been here 4 yrs. I have had more bull crap fed to me than i can count(if I had a quarter for every lie, I would be able to buy a mansion). but i did manage to meet two people(im picky also). In my experience I see a lot of men limit themselves to certain areas for seeking women. Maybe its not the women doing the chain yanking its those who right off the bat say "oh you are too far" (os some stupid shit)I am just saying try broadening your options and go from there push your limits some and you might get lucky and a lot of times there may just be NO interest the reason they dont want to meet. I had guys thinking I was full of it but they failed to realized that they just didnt do it for me.

This is just my opinion, and mentioning this is not an indication of expertise herein. LOL... Just a little experience from my end..

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